how do you tell if a girl is using you for sex?

The best way to tell is if your penis is in her vagina and she's not complaining about it or shouting 'no means no'.

LOL

I don't see why this is even a question....lol

cant answer it?? its a legit question im just curious is all

You are the man, you lead. That is all I have to say. Three things are required for a relationship in theory: Intimacy, passion, and commitment.


When you have the time, look it up. Google triangular love theory, it is a short read, but can give you some ideas.

Dean.

cheers man, i dont have an issue with a woman who i think is using me at all, just curious as i have never seen anything of the sort come up in the forums. probably because we are the ones using them!! hahahaha

If she wants to fuck you, but does not want anything else to do with you! Thats a pretty good indication...That would make you a Fuck Buddy and that is 100% cool!

If you TRY to make it more, you will probably lose the girl and the SEX!

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I'd have to agree with Dean there would be more intimacy.

Passion on the other hand, if the sexual tension is there will give you passion. I've hooked up with several girls where there was no relationship but tons of passion.

When it comes down to whether a girl wants sex or more from you just pay attention to her behaviors and you'll get a pretty good idea what she is looking for.

Is she using "we" and "us" type statements more?

Does she make plans to hook up or hang out?

Is she the type of girl that can maintain a sex relationship or is she the type that "needs" a relationship?

Is there hand holding?

Holding each other?

What time does she call/text or invite you?

What are the arrangements when you come over?

Does she stay over or let/prefer you stay over?

Is the basis of your relationship public or private?


A few of good questions to ask yourself is what do you want out of this? What behaviors are you exhibiting to influence the parameters of the relationship? How are they affecting her behaviors in regards to the relationship?

After you kind of step back and 3rd person view it, everything becomes pretty simple. People are logical as long as you ask the right questions you get the right answers.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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