Hey,

So basically I have liked this girl who's younger for a few weeks now and we had spoken a few times before i liked her and it was good and she knows i like her. Its been terrible though because loads of people found out and start saying stuff so instead of me having any control of the situation i had nothing.

People were talking to her for me because i was being such a PUSSY! but i finally properly spoke to her the other night and we finally got onto the topic of us and she was like 'I don't want a bf' and said i was too old as well as mentioning the fact that i was friends with her bro and that was a bit weird..

So after putting on a brave face in front of her we kinda just said lets just go back to how it was before i liked her. But i feel like i failed and I cant take rejection so I just wanted to know if theres anything I can do to win her over? like start trying to become her friend and build up attraction etc or should i leave it for a bit? I know i have bad oneitis but thats how I am, I always want to succeed and show I can get her.

So any help would be much appreciated!! also if you have an idea on what i should say to her that would be awesome!

No need to chase a LJBF.. All you can do is move on, and improve yourself for the next target. If you change noticebaly and she sees that she might come around later. However, you should move on

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