im a junior in college and a lot of my friends recently have been noticing that ive been doing a lot better with girls. i am tempted to direct them here and share some of the shit ive learned and we could even wingman each other (not really necessary at frat parties however) but i dont want them to think its lame that im improving my life a shitload (how could that EVER be lame!?) via internet forums and videos. they are my frat bros, we rip on each other ALL the time, i dont give a fuck about it, but we are dicks to each other. we pretty much never ever cock block however, but i can totally see a pissed off (very drunk) bro who i just swooped a hb from or one who was just shot down by the chick who im currently sucking face with being like "dont talk to this guy he got his game off the internet" and just totally blowing up my spot. thoughts? should i share this absolute gem of a site with some of my dudes?

My first thought is that if you're good enough then what they tell her won't matter. It'll only cockblock you if you're still new and using canned material and fake confidence.

My second thought is, fuck it why deal with it anyway? If you don't trust em then don't tell em. Personally I would only tell someone who I knew was serious about it and had the balls to admit that he needed help, then I'd help him myself and show him where to get more.

Generally I won't offer help or advice unless its asked for.

i think ill keep it to myself, but addressing your last statement, some of them just have too big of egos to ask for help but they are not only my fraternity brothers, but truly my brothers and best friends, so i just want to help them because i care about them. but me > them so for now i will keep my mouth shut, thanks for the advice

If they truly wanted help and self improvement, they would already be seeking it out and wouldn't need your help. That doesn't mean you can't be a source of inspiration for people, but more than often I have only encountered jealously and hate over anything else by getting better with girls in front of my mates.

I have tried to give guys help, and it doesn't do anything, even when they have asked me for help. They will listen, say oh that's interesting, and then go back to their old behaviors. It's too big of a paradigm shift for them to handle, it's too contradicting to their reality.

People give themselves success barriers, and refuse to move beyond them because success and change scares them. People don't want to help themselves, because they would rather feel comfortable in their comfort zones...rather than experience fear, anxiety, and discomfort to improve their lifestyle, sexuality, character, and personality in the long term.

You can explain pua to them, but you can't understand it for them.

I gave my wing a disc with a bunch of pua material on it. He watched/listened to the whole thing and is going to give me some of his material for me to read in return. He's a pimp too, and bangs women on the regular.

I gave that same disc to my roomate. He had it for two weeks and never bothered putting it in his computer. He sits at home on the weekend in whitey tighties doing crossword puzzles by himself.

People make choices, but you can't make it for them.

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