in order of preferability
ask her in person say 'hey ive got a new phone, can you stick in your num, i must have lost your old one.' but make sure when you say you lost it make sure that your poker faced in that your not really that bothered if you get it or not. and then add, 'by the way can u facebook me that picture.'
or mesage her offline saying can i get hold of the pic the other day as i think i may have to photoshop your face before it goes online

' just make sure that its clear its a tease not a insult.