Hi,

I started looking at pick up last year at a time of need. In short it did me good, helped me man up, I lost my virginity and expanded my confidence as well as friend base.

Problem is I got too comfy getting lucky every now and then, as well as a few short flings which never really amounted to much. For my own confidence (and probably sanity :p) I need to get my game back and ideally pull this weekend.

I'm lacking motivation and guidance. I've got the standard anxiety issues all over again and fear getting too drunk has become a crutch and an excuse for not doing better.

I've set myself some goals. This weekend there is a bar crawl with one of my uni societies. I would like to:

1) Don't let alcohol ruin my night.
2) Meet at least 10 new people (just to expand my friend base)
3) Get 3 girls numbers.
4) At least kiss close.

I know I can be a great person to both talk to and be around when I want to be, right now I'm anxious about getting out there again, and I think part of me is scared of what people may think of me (something I spent a while working on)

Any guidance as to what I can read (preferably accessible online, payment no issue) or watch regarding this would be greatly appreciated, as well as obviously any of your own tips.

Thanks in advance
R&B