I told my girlfriend that she was the hottest girl I've come across in the city. Later I told her that I haven't seen every woman in the world, so I can't possible say that she's the most beautiful woman in the world. These things offended her..

Do I not love my girlfriend if I were to think someone else was more attractive?

Should a guy automatically think that his girlfriend is hotter than anything walking the face of the Earth just because he loves her?

My gf is not happy, and I just want to see if I'm crazy or not.

Ysrayl

I never thought much of my girl until after months of having sex, where she become alot more beautiful in my eyes. In the beginning she was average to me but now i see her as pretty, even when shes got no make up or nothing. If you guys have started having sex it probably has to do with the chemicals in your brain n shit making her more attractive to you...

I personally wouldnt go as far as saying shes the prettiest in the world or in my city to any girl, even if she really was.... you dont want her to think shes out of your league, and get a big head, thats how you start to get taken for granted...

Tell her shes beautiful once in a while, but dont go overboard or she will end up thinking shes better than you.

and ffs dont tell her shes too beautiful for you or you WILL end up hurt... remember your supposed to be the alpha man with many beautiful girls as options. Start gaming other girls on the side if you feel your becoming obsessed.

Thanks for the reply.

My gf couldn't even go to work because she spent 5 or 6 hours arguing with me about this bullshit. She cried all her eye make-up off over this shit.

I finally had to just convince her that I think she IS the most beautiful woman in the world just so she would shut up and buy us dinner.

Ysrayl

It is totally acceptable to lie about how beautiful you think a woman is, and that is what you should have done. To make up for your earlier faux pas, compliment things that she can (and does) change to look better, i.e. clothing, shoes, hair, nails, skin, etc. Eyes are the exception to this rule, compliments about eyes always go down well.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

Put simply:


If a girl EVER ask "Does my ass look too big in this?"

you say "No of course not! your ass looks amazing!"

To make up for it just say "Beauty is common... but your the the whole package"

or "If Jessica Alba, Miranda Kerr, Miley Cyrus all offered to have sex with me at the same time... I would say NO because I have YOU"

Brother if she doesn't forgive you then... well you might wanna think about that orgy

Wow, this is the most retarded post I've seen in a long while.

One thing you need to take into account is that women read into things and look for even the slightest hint of something negative so they can misconstrue it as an insult and then blow it out of proportion.

Obviously your gf is not Kim Kardashian, and she knows that as well as you do. So it goes without saying that she is not the most beautiful girl out there. But what your girl wants to know is that you are attracted to her and you will pay her compliments. Giving her a straightfoward answer like "I haven't seen every girl on earth, therefore it is within the realm of possibility that someone might be hotter than you" is not a compliment to her nor does it convey that you are really into her. It's little more than a shit test that you are walking yourself right into by initiating that conversation.

That's why you want to always compliment your girl and be really lovey dovey, and only put her down when you need to punish her or keep her in check.

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Agreed!!! I usually say "Do you see the way that I look at you?" when I am asked these types of questions.

It is never a good idea to have this type of "discussion" with a girl IMO. Usually these are trick questions and no matter what you say all you are doing is digging the hole deeper!

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