As a little background: Im 21 and in my experience the chicks I meet in bars, clubs, or at parties are nice to hook up with but often lack substance. I've dated a lot of girls since high school but the ones that turned into solid relationships, didn't start near alcohol.

Having studied and practiced pick up for 2 and a half years I love being able to just have a hook up when I please. BUT eventually I'll be looking to settle down. The problem is, since I chose to live this lifestyle, Ive met a lot of girls. I have become more and more picky, now that I have near complete choice.

I came to the realization that I'm not about to meet the woman who tames me, like this. I thought back to all the girls I actually liked for their personalities, I can count them on one hand.

I met
2 through mutual friends
1 playing at an open mic coffee shop
1 in a super market

None from going out, and none in a mall, contrary to what I believed. I tried malls for a while expecting some of the girls there wouldn't be bland and unoriginal, I was wrong.

Anyway guys, I know this is one of those things I need to just let happen but in the mean time it doesn't feel right to just do nothing. I go out at least 3 nights a week and meet a ton of chicks, just none of them seem like fun anymore.

What do I do?

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Go to places where you think the type of girls you like would be at. For example a bookstore, near college campuses etc.

If you don't have a specific place in mind then go to a high traffic place and do daygame, you will get all sorts of variety.

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You can find quality at the bar.

You have to realize must of the girls you meet is on a drunken state, perhaps dont judge to quickly. Besides the more you meet the better for you.

And having that mentality that girls that dont like to go partying, are dream girls lose that shit, those girls are the worst, they spend much of there entire life being the perfect girl, but they reach an age... that they start to think, perhaps ive wasted my life and should be enjoying... and those became the frustated seeking something that they dont even know what it its.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Every girl wants to get fucked, no matter how hot, or how ugly...nothing trumps basic biological urges. The most prudish/innocent girls are typically the most sexually repressed and horniest around. One reason for you to go to church more;)

Women are everywhere bus stops, libraries, walking their dog at the park, gyms, office buildings, bowling allies, pizza parlors, schools etc...etc... as soon as you see her open her, stop making excuses.

Well , it's you need to explorer the world. try visiting place you've have been before.
by doing that you will get engaged to the environment around you easily.

Start going to different types of clubs and bars that cater for subcultures more.

I do find that if I go to 'normal' bars and clubs I don't feel attracted to the personalities of most girls, probably because I'm a creative arty type and I like that in girls as well. But if I go to Indie clubs, raves, metal nights etc 'different' types of girls are in a higher abundance.

Girls in bars and clubs don't always lack substance. Yes there are superficial girls whose only purpose in life they set themselves is to party. But a lot of chicks that go to bars and clubs also hang out in libraries and vice versa. They are all human beings in the end, each one has a history and a mindset and opinions. Where they hang out doesn't really make them who they are.

It's weird though, because whenever I hear seasoned pua's talking about experiences, it's almost always about girls they met while sarging at clubs, or outside of clubs, or on the way to clubs.

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