So this girl that lives in another country I regularly visit (used to live there) asked me a while back for a Hockey shirt from my favourite NHL team, this was after me joking around that i was going to convert her into a fan. SO anyways I said sure.

Then she went away and I said id see her and give it to her next time I am in town. Shes always been kinda dry and almost a little shy, when i took her on a date she said she was nervous. Another time she then blew me out.

So anyhow she goes away on holiday and im busy and our semi regular messaging dies out for a month or so.

Then out of the blue she messages me saying hey whats up, when are you comming?

Tehn also and unsualy for her she says "cants wait to get my hockey top and see you again"

This is the first time she ever instigated contact. So I wrote back and teased her slightly about some photo i saw of her online.

I was considering saying "i cant decide what would look better on you, a rangers top or me!"

Is that too sexual? never kissed her yet or out, and the fact she seems kinda shy. Any opinions or ideas on that and how to handle them when they get back in contact after a while?

Don't respond with the sexual comment. And be very dry in your response. Talk/text her, but don't actually mention coming to see her. In fact, avoid discussing that until she brings it up again. Then when she brings it up act like you are busy or that it may be a while before you come see her. Don't be eager or too available. This will work, I'm telling you.

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you are very concerned with this girl's standards, does she live up to your standards?

also, please post your general questions in the general question sub-forum, I have moved this thread to the appropriate location