I have noticed that I have strong issues on getting sexual with girls, It takes heck of a time for me to get so comfortable to actually touch her normally (in sober mood)

When I have dates I notice girls even searching contact with me and I usually find it weird to my mind when she is walking so near to me that we are rubbing each other shoulders.

I have some strong barriers/issues with that, I can approach girls daily and get em laughing and enjoy my company, but I want to get sexual vibe going.

Do you guys have some sort of tips how you break your sexual fears..

everyone help is much appreciated

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Stackin Numbers

It's called kino bro. And don't think of it as "touching her", that's AFC thinking. Think of it as making physical contact. The key to being smooth and doing kino escalation is to avoid the cliche-type move where you slowly put your arm around her in the movie theatre. That's the typical awkward AFC move.

You can do things to get her to touch you. Girls like shiney colorful things. Put those things on your body and they will touch you. It's gonna take a while to build up your sexual confidence to where you can touch a girl in a sexual way. So start out small. If she says a sarcastic comment, push her shoulder with one hand and be like "Oh whatever". That's a kind of flirty tease move. There's so many ways to make contact with her, I could sit here all day typing about it. What you need to focus on is making contact and making sure it's not awkward. I think you have weak inner game which translates to insecurity when trying to kino a woman.

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Whatever you do, dont look at the place you are touching her.

When i was first beginning i tried to kino a girl's arm. Lets just say i missed... And i looked. Turns out i missed her arm and my two fingers landed on her armpit...it was also wet, so i kinda made the slow look. Then when we had that looong awkward stare at each other. The entire thing looked like i just randomly checked her armpit in the middle of a conversation.

Very awkward.

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Thanks, it makes sense to me 100%.

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Stackin Numbers

work on make outs

if clubbing try to kiss a girl soon, focus on the compliance and moving forward faster, don't worry about the girls not liking you, just focus on the make out as practice

Thanks I appriciate it, if you have tips on day 2's I would like get those (how do get sexual, touchy fast)

I can talk with girls in relaxed state and have no problem with that but I ofter worrie about kiss-closes and goodbyes ( when I have to step it )

I have bretty much conquered my approach anxiety, but now I need to make another big step on getting better at day 2's (sexual side).. and im worried if i cant do those things they think that im not inrested enough or scared both of those ruining my game.

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Stackin Numbers

get your intent across more quickly from the initial approach, qualify a girl before getting her on a d2, when you meet have the frame already set as a ''date'' due to sexual interest

when you first meet, hug and kiss her on the cheek, talk about her and continue to get to know her keeping the focus off yourself, make sure the d2 location offers good logistics and try to end the date by getting her into a spot the logistically makes sex possible, once you have the logistics just make out with her, feel her up and do your best to make sex happen

if she doesn't screen well and won't comply with moving towards good logistics consider her in your rotation compared to other girls, maybe give her less priority and let her put in some effort to invest before you continue putting effort into progressing with her