I met this girl a while ago then lost touch kind of. We both became facebook friends then and she was in and out of her longterm relationship.she broke up with her long term boyfriend in the summer because he cheated on her. She was posting a lot of depressing status's on facebook about how she hopes to meet a nice guy blah blah blah. So i saw her at a crowded place in the city a few weeks ago didnt get a chance to say high to her but sent her a facebook msg the next day. She a
Seemed interested in the convo for a bit asking questions and asking if i had fun and what i ended up doing and what ive been upto lately. I asked her the same and she stopped responding. A couple of days later i saw some another sad status on facebook that someone apparantly said to her about stop holding onto relationships and people who dont care about you etc etc etc so i decided to take some initiative and sent her flowers with a message saying hope this puts a smile on your face and brightens up your day. She sent me a message on facebook saying i got these flowers at work... Was very surprised. That was very sweet of you. Thank you for the gesture! I replied no problem ive noticed your status's and felt you needed to be cheered up. She replied back saying. that was so sweet of you...thank you so much!! You're amazing! And i said i hoped you liked the flowers and went on to say if you ever need to talk text, call, message me and i gave her my number and know she saw the message but she didnt reply or anything. That was 2 weeks ago. What do i do now? Is she not interested and being nice? Should i quit and move on ? I thought me sending her the flowers would seperate me from the rest and atleast get her to start texting me. Help please

Very good with everything so far, but took interest in her and did not invite her to anything. That is the first thing you should have done. I should have invited her to a dinner or something the week you gave her flowers. Now it will seem kind of awkward after 2 weeks to do something about it. If I where you I would send her a message on facebook saying that you are going [somewhere at such time] and you are invited to join me.

You need to act with more confidence never give a girl a choice, you gave her the choice to call you, you need to be the guy that calls her, if you want this thing to work out.

Well its my birthday this monday so planning on doing something in atlantic city over the weekend. I dont think she would feel comfortable going because its pretty far and awkward for me to ask for an overnight party. What do you think if my friend who knows her and talks to her from time to time and is setting hp the party and invites her and or tells her my friend really likes you, hes a good guy you shouls give it a try or something like that

I agree with Jackstine, I wouldn't change a thing of what he said.

I m not a big fan of friends being involved in relationships, also, girls like confident man, and by having your friend recommendation this way, it's not much of confident from your part!

What you can do is create one of those facebook event things, invite your friends and her as well, if she say yes and go to your brthday party thing then you're good, if she can't make it, go have fun, take lot of pictures, post some of them on fb, if she comment on one of them then message her and tell her that you would loved if she was there...and ask her out say you have lot of stories for her...if she doesn't comment on any picture...after your brthday send her a message and ask how she spent her week, what's new and exciting with her...when she replies she will ask about your week and what's new with you, then tell her that you had a great party, lot of fun, took lot of pictures, have lot of stories to tell her and ask her out if she seem interested then you might have some luck with her, if she throw the oooo I would love to but I have to...them move on my friend!

Good luck!

if you really like her, invite her anyway, its not awkward. The only thing that is awkward is implying the fact that it is overnight. I.E. telling her that it is overnight, like I said stay confident, once you act anything else, its awkward, relationships are built on staying confident and not awkward, therefore you just need to be spontaneous, and do what you want.
The hardest thing to do is to train yourself to not thing what others are thinking.