I'm dead pissed off that I can't get any fucking girls OLDER than me, ONE girl that I have older than me so far and she was only 1 year older than me! what Am I going wrong here! why can't I attract older girls, I fairly good looking guy 26, and it pisses me off when I see 19 year olds going with older women! is it just me ? I am pretty good with women but younger than me, they seem to patronize me ALL the time, every time even girls are 3 years older than me, is it because that these girls have slightly better career than me, or are girls generally looking for OLDER guys? even the cougars are PATRONIZING me! its really annoying!

It's probably because you are acting like you are younger than them. When cougars chase after young boys, they are still attracted to stong, manly, masculine behaviour. You are probably uncounsciously giving them too much respect because you were brought up to "respect your elders". Don't respect any woman who hasn't earned it.

Stop respecting the cougars / milfs, treat them the same as the younger girls you fuck and the rest will be easy. The fact that you have made a difference in your head between "younger girls" and "older women" in the first place shows that you treat them differently, which is your mistake.

Calibrate your behaviour, act mature enough, don't make a big deal out of age difference and most importantly don't talk about how your blood elf paladin is almost level 90

But yeah my best advice would be, don't make it a big deal because she's older, because girls sense that and it will become a big deal. Act normal, maybe be a little more careful with some topics (some older women are over the phase of getting drunk/doing crazy shit) and it should be fine

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Quoted for awesomeness. I would also like to add that its important to bust their balls for being older. You have to come in with the frame that your age is superior to theirs.

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No...

The older women have the strenght to put kids in their places when they act like disrespectful brats. It is true, though that the last thing a cougar would want is a boy making them feel old (acting too young or making disrespectful comments about their age). You are not supposed to act like a superior, but their equal. You need to be mature and clever enough to be able to talk engagingly to an older woman, but also have the energy and excitement of a younger man to charm them.

If you start making up some arrogant kid act, you'll get eaten by breakfast by an older, confident careerwoman.

I personally think it doesn't really matter how old they are, the same principles of attraction apply. Some women want a younger pool boy/fuck toy, and others don't care about his age as long as he has his shit together. My experience is that they will often go for the alpha types even if the guy is much younger, because he still presents himself as manly and in charge, even if he isn't old enough to buy liquor. Some of them will even be attracted to the young guy who is cute, but is a complete mess, because they can play the mother role and treat him like a "fixer upper". Whether you naturally fall into any of those categories is a matter of circumstance, but again, if you build attraction in the proper way, your age will not matter to her.

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I like older women and have a bit of experience in this market (from 20 onwards went to bars with cougars quite a bit) and everything is to do with holding yourself and language. They dont want to hear how rad your party was. Plus them getting pissed helps ALOT. Another point is ease up on the questions, often older women have more to say than I do. Of course they do, they have been there done that so learn from them!

My quick guide;

Opener: Make it relevant, so for example instead of "who lies more boys or girls?", change to "I can't figure out who are the worse offenders for lying, men or women". I know this is a lame opener but you can see the changes.

Transition: Make sure they know your intentions early on, they only have so many eggs till menopause so making them waste them on idle chit chat is cruel (kind of a joke ) "Your a liar right? You have a dirty look in your eyes". Hold that eye contact and smile cheeky. Make her respect you.

Qualify: Maybe some spins or move her around, palm on lower back to assert yourself, nothing too drastic needed.

Fluff: Sexy chit chat gets them running like the Mississippi. Spread yourself out like you have learnt to already, take up space but dont make physical contact because you dont need to. She probably has a strong mind, has met a lot of people and doesn't need you to read her palms...

Isolate: Chances are she is out with a hunting crew (cougars hunt in packs) and they have seen you chatting her up. Nether the less your target isn't going to want everyone in the room see you snog, there is still something a little wrong there socially. Go for a smoke, do anything to get her on her own and reduce friends vision and other people.

SNL: If you have got this far then its game set and match, she didn't waste this time on you just to give you a hard on for her amusement. Make out and take her home. "Lets get out of here" is one of my favourites


Obviously that is quite brief but its the model I subconsciously worked with when I was hunting.I say subconsciously because I had no idea about PUA, or thae game but it always happened like this.

Give it a try, best of luck bud

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