I have a little dilemma on my hands. I have recently come to grips that I have been put into the friend zone with a girl I have been gaming for a while and created attraction in. I had her in the attraction zone at one point and made out with her but for the past month it has been feeling more like I am in the friend zone rather than being looked at as a sexual man. I have read that the best way to get out of the friend zone is to stop all communication with her for a while then come back into her life as a new dominant alpha male that wasn't there when being put into the friend zone. My question is how long should I cut off all communication? By the way, this girl is an absolute mature 10 and has her shit together. She has already had numerous guys try to get out of the friend zone with her by spilling their feelings to her but it just scared her away. I don't want to be that guy but I want her to feel an emotional impact from me not communicating with her like I used to. We communicate with each other at least 3 times a week. Should I cut off ALL communication or should I cut it back to once every two weeks? I want to make sure that when I come back then I am having sex for sure. Any and all ideas are helpful.

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I recommend keep the flame going but let it die off a little bit. Space out how often you two communicate and have her thing that you talk to other women and may be even considering another women, but don't tell her its another women. Simply let her know you just been busy (let her mind wonder) then continue this on until she starts trying to make more time for you and want to see you more. Once you get there your pretty much in the gold mind.

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The friendzone can truly be a bitch!

Now, since it's not certain that you're in the friendzone yet, Ladiesman might have a point. But as I've understood it, this girl has a lot of guys chasing her (due to her being a 10 with her shit together). What you might risk is that she will choose someone else, simply because you didn't display enough interest in her.

You should meet up with her, and bring your top game! Kino, escalate, create sexual tension, k-close and then f-close her. If you can manage to do this, you win!

Now, let's say that you try and do this, but gets an "I like you as a friend!" shot in your face. Then you'll have to do a hardcore freezeout. Don't reply to her messages at all (or at least wait for a long time and reply dismissive). After 1-2 months (the longer you wait the better imo), say something like "I haven't talked to you in a long time, I'd like to meet up for a coffee" or w /e.

In addition to being an "all new you" with alpha behaviour etc. you should also do something to your hair, wear new clothes or something like that. There should be a visible difference to you, that way the "new you" will be easier to accept for her.


But honestly, if you're friendzoned, get rid of your oneitis and move on.

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I'm pretty much in the same dilemma as you, my friend. What I'm about to tell you is something that I've been trying to apply to myself. It's called the art of trying without trying. You gotta just not give a damn. Allow your desire for her to fuel your understanding in that you must let her go. If you're not good at sarging other girls, whenever, wherever, I suggest you start with Style's idea of incipient approach -approach expecting rejection so that you become numb to it. Then, make lady friends, get numbers, go on dates. If you're friends with her on fb, post picture of yourself out with your buds and these other ladies.