I've been gaming this girl for a couple of months now but shes had a boyfriend so I haven't really pushed it too far, a few failed kiss closes but we've got a lot of built of sexual tension, we always playfully and teasingly bite each others necks, tickle fights, play fights, etc.. etc.. but she'd never go further than that due to having a boyfriend so I've tried to keep things fun, playful and flirty instead of going caveman on her.

Anyway, she broke up with her boyfriend yesterday, he'd become highly insecure over the last month or so to the point of actually accusing her of cheating on him with me (I couldn't help but laugh) I played the whole "Oh I'm sure hes just scared of losing you" card, basically bigging him up only for her to smash him into the ground.

I'm seeing her tomorrow, how should I play things? I know shes into me, she gives tonnes of IOI's whenever we're together and I'm going to avoid being the shoulder to cry on at ALL costs. But other than that, any advice?

Anyone?

What do you have planned for the meeting? I wouldnt do coffee/walks/dinner or anything that would involve sitdown talks - theres a high probability that your gonna end up being the shoulder she cries on.

Do something totally fun/totally random to show her that you are super fun (and that she made the right choice in leaving the other guy lol) and also it totally shifts the frame. Hitting 2-3 events in the city in the same night is always fun. Itll keep her wondering whats next and how interesting you are, rather than the break up.

Set the frame.

Hope this helps.

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Thanks for the reply!

Shes coming round to mine but I don't plan on staying here, shes never been in my house before so its going to be 5 minutes then we're heading out, I was going to just do a bit of window shopping, walk around, she asked me a while ago if I would teach her to take pictures (I'm a photographer) so I was planning on taking her down by the river and doing that.

You're right though, that'd give her a chance to try and bring up the breakup, I could just keep changing the topic and not let her get too deep about it

I wouldnt stray too far from your original plan, photography is a mad cool idea and not to mention, ull be totally in your element - just tweak it so it's adventurous I suppose. Maybe a different venue, something more upbeat. The local tourist thing is always fun and lots to take pics off.

Cheers, all the best with it!

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i would just kick back and relax, dont force the issue or make the situation weird. she will show you if she wants you to kiss her, pay attention to the signs

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