Ive been watching videos of RSD Tyler and RSD Julien talking about emotional spikes, being a mystery, making girls feel special etc. So I tried using the material based on what i've watched mixed with some lines off the back of my head. Honestly I dont know how to escalate from where im at. I feel like i turned myself into a sad dog in this convo with the emotional spikes maybe? haha. If anyone can give me advice on where i messed up and how to escalate, appreciate it
messaged random girl online; convo goes: me, her, me, her etc.


Oh hey I really wanted to talk to you and idk. Hi

You really have a way with words

I don't send people messages everyday like you do lol. But at least you're cute. Makes up a little for the bitchiness

Who said I send messages everyday?

Ohh youre one of “those”... but nevermind. I just felt like maybe. idk. I could open up with you.

Would you care to elaborate on what you mean by "those"? And don't take the bitchiness personally. I just automatically assume everyone on this site is stupid because they usually are. But I'm always willing to listen to anyone who needs it.

I can tell you tommoro what i meant. thanks by the way I've never opened up with anyone before. what are you up to?

Playing the Sims

really?? oh god. these really smelly girls were playin the sims last night. I cant even talk to you right now. hygiene is important if i ever let you meet me.

I don't think the video games you play have anything to do with your hygiene

You're right. idk. my grandpa died last week and i was just tryin to make you smile

I'm sorry to hear that

But he deserved to

Why do you say that?

He like attacked a kid outside of his house for walking on the grass. i mean isnt that wrong? I love kids

Yea. I would consider that an overreaction. But maybe he had something wrong with him? Where he couldn't control what he was doing at the time? I don't know.

I dont know. I cant believie im actually opening up with you,, like wow this is so different we are so different.. wow

Haha yea. Sometimes that's just what you need to do


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pretty sure i screwed this up mainly because I giver her any IOIs or give a direct opener. idk... lol

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imagine you didn't care about having sex with the girl and could walk away at anytime from this to go meet a different girl if it didn't go well,

you knew you could say or do anything and nothing bad would happen to you,

what would be your ideal thing to say or do to escalate things?
what are you focused on when you feel this way?
being incongruent feels bad doesn't it?
confidence = knowing or being certain of something, re-read your text log, ask yourself if you are projecting the imagine of someone who ''knows'' what they are doing, does it seem like you have a clear direction you are taking this in that you are certain of to you? or do you think this seems like you just randomly doing weird shit in the hopes that something just flys well with her and she takes the lead?

figure out what you want, and descide how you want to do it, then take action and reflect on what happened as a result of how you took action

also, leave your house and meet girls in person