Took a girl that I know out on a steak dinner. It was a Event so other people where their that I knew. After the steak dinner, the event had a venue rented out so we can party. My date drank alot of alcohol and I kissed her alot and retreated multiple times. Telling her that I did not know her very well, as that was the case.

I then told her to take a walk with me, and we walked around, hoping that she would sober up a bit. We then left the bar, and went to my place, because she had left some stuff there, and wanted to get it. She was still very drunk at the time.

The conversations that we had where very entertaining and interesting. She kept on telling me that she was sorry for being drunk, and that she was classy. She was very insecure about the perception she had in the eyes of others, as she was drunk. I kept telling her that all that mattered was that we where going to have a fun time and, I did, (cant be certain for her, she seemed very depressed). She kept talking about her Grandmother and how classy she was and that she had to live up to those standards of "Classiness".

When we got to my place, it started to rain, so she got her stuff. She sat down on my chair and I told her some things that hopefully would encourage her to be a stronger person. She just looked at me and said that I was sweet and "those are the kindest words anyone has ever said to me". I told her that she can sleep on my bed, while I sleep on the couch.

I then immediately asked her if I could join her in my bed, she agreed and then, the strangest night of my life happened. I just held her hand all night and could not go to sleep, and woke up several times in the night, just regretting sleeping in my bed. Then at around 9AM in the morning she had a friend come and pick her up at my place, I tried to kiss her goodbye an she pulled away and said "No".

I tried to keep a relationship over the phone through texting, but I never made the effort or courage to keep it going because I felt bad of what happened.
I just recently saw her at a party, and she never came up to me. I said "Hi" to her that night and she just looked at me and smiled and looked the other way. I felt very intimidated and weak.

I wasnt going to score with her because she was way to drunk.
I think the one thing that I did wrong was not take her home/ and sleeping in my bed with her.
and the fact that I should have taken her somewhere between the steak dinner and party to gain more comfort. I believe I was seducing this girl without building comfort.

What do you all think?

You pity-partied her! This date sounds miserable. First, whyyy did you take her to a fancy event? That's so much pressure, even if you knew her pretty well. Second, girls drink a lot so they can do what they want and blame it on the alcohol — she wanted to kiss you, she probably wanted to sleep with you too. By pushing her away and telling her "no," she felt like she was acting overly slutty and that you didn't like her because of that. She then kept trying to qualify herself (which is just sad) by saying that she was classy even though everything she'd done that night was the opposite of classy — but she wanted you to like her, and you probably like classy girls. Then the whole laying in bed holding hands thing was just painful to read... I find that I'm most horny when I'm pretty drunk, so that must've sucked for her. It sounds like you didn't convey any sexual interest in her that night. She doesn't want to talk to you because in her eyes she was a complete mess and that she ruined the date. And girls "leave" there stuff at a guys place for a reason! Hope you've learnt your lesson.