In a book "Mystery method - How to get beautiful women into bed" , it says -"you must first disqualify yourself from being considered a potential
suitor by her." and you should say to her stuff like "i just wanna be shopping friends" and stuff like that . But i wonder isn't that falling into FRIENDZONE? Can somebody explain me what is the difference?

Nah, friendzone is where -she- labels -you- the 'friend'. If you're making YOURSELF a friend, while she thinks she might want something else, you're making yourself unattainable, and we all want what we can't have.

Yeah , but I have some fear if i disqualify a girl that she will accept that , and won't want anything more...

I don't think it works that way. I mean, think about it. Have you ever had a girl that you've got absolutely no interest in in your life?

If you go out drinking with them and dancing/having fun enough times, treating them as a 'friend' the entire time they'll eventually make an awkward pass at you. It's just one of those things. Has happened to me a few times - whenever you really, absolutely do not care, it makes you behave differently, and for some reason the way you behave when you DON'T want someone is much more attractive. Not gonna say I understand it fully, but it definitely works.

I've learned the hard way that if you show too much interest in a woman, she'll go off you incredibly quickly. If you're blasé, like, whatever, you have other options, and just play it cool, then you have a much better chance.

The disqualification is only used to get under the girls radar it's not a frame to keep up. Once you're in conversation then DHV wait for some ioi's from the girl then go kino to escalate.