Took out this girl twice, the first time was great, the second time, however, two things happened:

1) Felt like I ran outta things to talk about at one point and I started panicking, but tried to keep calm and chive on.

2) I payed for her food, she was slightly reluctant, and then once I did she said, "Thanks freind!" I ignored the remark and when we ate at this little wine bar, I did Style's Five Lie game to get a free drink outta her. She loved it. But again, my mind effed me over in the end by being intimidated by running outta things to talk about. How do I "train" myself to think that I'm the prize and that I don't need to try?

Also, today we were supposed to do a group study with another girl. Me and the target were supposed to meet at 5. Once it was almost 5, she asked "is anyone else coming?" I told her that the other girl was, but that it would be 8 when she came. Her response: I might have to meet up later. Something came up."
My Response: "Do your thing. Seya."

What's y'alls opinion on the texting?

She's definitely not interested. But that's not the problem - disinterest can be worked through. The issue here is that she's being a total bitch. She was absolutely disrespectful toward you about meeting up to study. Is she so shallow that she actually has a problem with fucking studying with a member of the opposite sex?

It's possible that you came on too strongly. She might sense desperation which kills all the attraction. The fact that you mentioned that you panic and run out of things to say further proves this point. Don't focus on what you're going to say next. Let conversations flow naturally. Act like she's your friend and nothing more. Make her wonder why you're not hitting on her like every other guy out there.

But with that said, I think you should drop her for the reasons I mentioned in the first paragraph.

Honestly, Snarg, the first time we went out, I didn't even think about what I was going to say. Like you said, it just flowed -and it was fun. But Idk man, I over analyze and worry. When I do, I don't even feel the attraction, just negativity. But when I don't I feel like I can do anything, get any girl. I'm not one at giving up, and I'm trying to train myself to be positive and not give a damn. How do you do it?

It's kind of a mental barrier that you'll overcome in time. You need to really enjoy life outside of women. Whatever hobbies you have should come first. Always have male friends to go out with when the going gets tough - and it inevitably will. You need to realize that no woman is perfect, and in fact, most are fucking losers just like most men. It's not about what you have to offer to a woman, it's what she has to offer you.

Thanks man! Right now, I'm not really looking for a serious relationship, unless she's just unperfectly amazing lol. But right now, I'm looking for pretty much fuck buddies. And at the same time, be able to "leave the girl better than I found her" -if possible. But the same rules apply to both desires, huh?

Snarg's right, that girl sounds like a bitch. But if that's what you're into use a freeze-out. Be cold and ignore her until she becomes so uncomfortable that she'll cozy up to you just to make things normal again.