I'm a sophmore in college and there's one girl i'm interested in one of my classes, she actually asked me what I put for a quiz we had after the quiz and she seemed to be giving off a lot of IOI's after a few of my responses and a neg. The next class though I sat a row above her just because it had more seats available and she was like oh you changed seats to which I responded yea I changed my mind and decided I like it up here better. After class I tried to get a hold of her (because in class I can't talk obviously) to tell her the right answer to the quiz but I guess she didn't hear or see me because she walked out kind of like she forgot I was there. It kinda baffled me because she seemed to be giving of major IOI's but maybe I was mistaken. So I was thinking of next class next week of negging her saying "you know why your so mean?" HB why? "because you just walked out on me last class when I asked you a question" Any other PUA tips I can use? Classrooms are hard because you have a very short amount of time in the beginning of class and end when you can talk and approach. Any ideas? Especially with this girl?

Stop.

Kick it into reverse.

She knows you're interested and you're in great danger of losing her interest if you continue.

Sitting in the new row and admitting you liked it better lead her to believe you did it out of interest in her. It's no secret why she charged out of there afterwards. She was avoiding you because she knew you wanted her attention, and she'd decided you weren't worth her's.

Calling her "mean" because she ignored you implies you need her approval and attention. That's lower value.

It's time to show her you don't need her attention, and start demonstrating higher value.

Before class, open with the a different girl. Ask her if she understands one of the topics from last class, use an opinion opener- whatever. Just open and get a response from that girl.

If you feel comfortable doing it, involve as many people as you can who show up a few minutes early in a conversation. If you time it to about ten minutes before lecture then you've got a nice time constraint. You won't have to dazzle them too long before class starts.

When your target walks in, you're involved elsewhere (instead of watching for her) and people in the room are looking to you. You've just demonstrated higher value.

Eventually, if the focus of the room is on you, or she notices how charming your being with someone else, she's going to try and get your attention back.

This isn't necessarily because she's interested yet. It's mostly to reassure her own ego. She has discarded you as unvaluable and now she wants to reassure herself that she could still have you if she wanted. (She's making sure you really are a throw-away.)

Neg her.

"You're so needy. First you want the answers to my quiz, and now what?", something along those lines. It shows you remember the interaction, but you aren't placing too high of a value on it.

If you do manage to push-pull her into being interested in further interaction then make sure you have a time constraint set on whatever you're doing.

Good luck

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Just shift phase grab her hand and say u have ten minutes lets have coffee.If u wait much longer some1 else will snatch her up do it 2mo dont think just do!!!!!