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PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 4:34 pm 
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Ok, here's a situation I haven't had experience with (there are many others too lol)

Basically, I am gaming this attractive girl I recently met, she has a new job working closely with a girl I previously had a thing with. It never ended well, and she is a vacuous, air-headed attention whore, liar and a gossip. What I am worried is about my "ex" sticking a spanner in the works with this new girl.

How should I handle it if I get asked anything or this new girl suddenly goes cold on me, it's the early stages of the courtship process. She seems kind of interested so far, but there is a bit more work to be done since she is quite reserved and shy.

If I'm like "She's just a liar and a bitch" it could easily make me seem bitter and make me look even worse.

The thing is, she really IS a liar and a total bitch! She is in constant need of narcissistic supply and fabricates all sorts of things to cause drama and generate attention. That's not just sour grapes on my part.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 4:47 pm 
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Don't worry about the other girl. Remember, things are only as big a deal as you make them out to be. Continue on with the new girl, show her a good time, be in the moment with her, and likely she'll build an allegiance to you that will prevent Narcissist girl from getting to her, if she even tries.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 5:00 pm 
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fuck wat she says about u. if and when u get asked about her andyall just say that she became crazy and obsessive. now she holds this grudge over u, or sum other shit like that. dnt put to much effort into it. or she'll think ur hiding sum. stop worrying ya bitch u. lol

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Are they close friends? Depending on the answer to this question, tread lightly...

If the new girl brings up the old girl, do not put her in a bad light. Tell her you guys just didn't work out, and that you haven't spoken to her in a while. Ask how she is doing, and if the new girl relays any bad info about you from your "ex" just say that you've heard she was spreading rumors and it's sad that things came to this.

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