I found this forum a month ago as an AFC, learned to changed my approach to women and sought some advice and finally scored for the 1st time in longer than I care to admit. I have definitely noticed (and enjoyed) women's attention level to me increasing as a result of these changes and also whatever it is that women pick up on when I guy is in a sexual relationship.

I have been seeing this girl for a few weeks and we slept together on our 3rd date which was 9 days ago. I have seen her every other day since and the sex has been great! Usually she invites me over to cook me dinner or like last Sunday just a lazy day in bed.

She is reading "50 Shades of Gray" and told me about her favorite part so on Monday I texted her and told her I was going shopping for our next encounter. I wouldn't tell her what I got and that she would have to come to my place to find out. When she arrived I blindfolded her and teased the hell out of her, did some other stuff to her and when we finally had sex she couldn't tell me enough times how amazing it was and that nobody had ever done that stuff to her before. So then I screwed up...

During the random pillow talk that followed she asked if I had seen one of my friends who I had had a brief fling with 10 years ago and I said "I think she is giving me space because she knows I have a new GIRLFRIEND." In my head I'm like whoops, I hope she doesn't call me on it. Nope. So we talk some more and as I am definitely developing some feelings for her and her for me we decide that we are boyfriend/girlfriend.

The next day, Wednesday, I figure that as a girl she doesn't just want sex and wants to be taken out so I text her and tell her I am picking her up at 6:30, dress casual and be ready. We texted a lot yesterday,Thursday, mostly sexual stuff and she insists we will have sex when I arrive. I tell her "No, I'm not giving it to you when I arrive but who knows what may happen while we are out or once we get back home." She got really frustrated and mad. She texted "You're depriving me of my girlfriend rights. My cock to have anytime/anywhere. It's the Law." Wanting to remain Alpha I laughed off her "Rights and Law" comment and called her a bad girl.

I arrive last night and she tells me how upset I made her so I give in and give her a little til she orgasms and then I pull out and put my pants back on and say "let's go." We go out to eat and when I suggest we go somewhere else she says "no, please just take me home and fuck me. I didn't even want to go out and eat." Then when we get back to her place she says "Things is moving awfully fast. Why don't we just fuck for now and if we get feelings down the road than great." I acted a little hurt by this (I actually was a bit) but wasn't sure if this was a Shit Test or what.

We had great sex and then after she went into this 30 minute tirade about all of her worst qualities (none of which I had seen first hand until now,) how bad of a person she was and that if I left her now she would understand. Now go home. I kissed her goodbye and left. Somewhere in the middle of all that we did make plans for me to come over Sunday afternoon, the day after tomorrow.

We usually text daily but I was kind of thinking maybe I should not contact her til Sunday. If she texts first I was thinking of texting back something like "This is your 1 and only text until Sunday, you bad girl!" and maybe something else but I'm not sure what. Any suggestions???

When she suggested we just be what sounds to be just FB what should I have said? That would be actually cool with me now that all that happened last night but in the moment I felt like if I had said "okay, sounds great!" most girls would have freaked out and said something else like "Is that all you want me for?"

Any advice on how I handled this would be appreciated...

Keep fucking the shit out of her, what's the problem here?! Most guys would kill for this. Sounds like you're trying to be the girl and she's the guy, go with it and see where it takes you.

She's horny, she wants it, you'd be a selfish man to deprive her of it. Plenty of time for walks in the park, and skipping rocks across the lake later on.

Yeah man, don't buy into that boyfriend type stuff yet. Don't switch roles... be the man. The gf/bf thing was rushed, it's like you want a serious LTR too soon. She likely just wants to get to know you and have crazy sex. Give it a month or two and you'll see where it's going. Right now it's serious infatuation, so just enjoy it!

Next time you see her grab her by neck, bend over over nearest table, pull panties/thong to side, reach for your shlong and jam it home. Worry about buying her flowers and candies another time.

Update: She texted me the next day, Friday

Her: "I apologize for acting so crazy last night. I'm not sure why I was that way."
Me: "I think you are probably scared of all the feelings and that was your defense mechanism."
Her: "I think you may be right."

Then I did not reply and have not texted her since and will not initiate another conversation until shortly before our planned meeting tomorrow afternoon when I plan to send 1 well planned text with some sexual connotations and how bad a girl she is. PS: she does enjoy the occasional spanking.

Any suggestions???

Also, my feelings toward her definitely diminished because of all this and being FB's would be great. I hadn't had sex in so long and then I hook up with a wild girl who constantly reminds me of how sexual of a person she is and definitely backs it up and I guess I got a little blinded.