I'll try and keep this as concise as possible.
Last few days of Uni last year, a ridiculously hot cheerleader took an interest in me and to cut a long story short.. Ended up nailing her for two consecutive nights. We agreed to keep in contact over Summer, had a few phonecalls and agreed that we'd be meeting up again when Uni starts up again in 4 months time. (I told her early on over Summer that I didn't want a relationship, she kind of got pissy about it.. But soon got over it and agreed that she still wanted to meet up after Summer).
A day before I get back to Uni, she was in a bar with one of my housemates and was telling him how much she was into me and how much she had been looking forward to spending time with me.. My SPAM told me about how keen she still was, and from that it still seemed like a guaranteed thing. I met up with her on the first day of getting back, but she had just been fired from her job so she was kind of down.. I did my best to reassure her and make her feel better, and I ended up walking her home and kissing her goodbye. From here on, things started to go badly. A few misunderstandings happened, and basically we planned to meet each other on a few seperate occassions and it never happened because one of us had to leave or whatever.. It still seemed okay though. She started ignoring my texts one night, but was still texting a girl flatemate of mine who is on her course.. So clearly she was choosing to blank me. We later ended up in the same club as her, and she pretty much blanked me all night whilst dancing with other guys. I think I did a good job of seeming unaffected by it, and carried on having a good night. Before I left though, I asked her if we could have a chat.. (Keeping in mind again, we were both pretty trashed at this point) had a word with her about why she was ignoring my texts, and she seemed to act as if she didn't know she'd done it.. Which was bullshit. It ended with her just getting up and walking off, so I just decided to leave. From here on, she hasn't replied to many of my texts and if she does reply to any then it takes like half a day for the response. I sent her a text a few days ago asking her is she just wants to meet up and talk about everything to see if could sort it out, but she said she didn't know what to say to me. At this point I just said to her that we should forget about it all and just be friends, to which she agreed.
The next day though, she sent me a message asking me if we should meet up for a chat because she felt bad about not giving me the time of day. I messaged her back quite a long message saying that I was happy to do it, just as long as she wasn't doing it just because of a guilt thing. I didn't get a reply, which really confused me again. I then saw her out the next night briefly, and she was all friendly and asked me to text her. When I got home, my housemate came home and told me that he's spoken to her briefly and she's told him that I need to 'stop sending her essays through text.' After he told me this, I sent her a message just saying 'Okay, good night
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I haven't seen her or made any contact with her since, but will run into her tonight at the club.. I'm thinking if I run into her I should just say 'hey' and thats it. She seems very indecisive, so I'm just gonna try and seem as carefree as possible. Sorry for the long post guys, but this whole thing has confused the hell outta me, so am looking for an outsiders point of view. Is she bipolar or what; thoughts?
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