Two very cute girls came to our soccer match the other day; they were friends with out goalkeeper. At half time I joked a bit with them, but they left before I could get chatting to them again.

That night, I randomly met them in a bar; I spotted them at the bar, but didn't go over and say high. They spotted me and made a semi-big deal out of it. So they came over chatting and we had some good banter.

I left the bar a few times during the night to go to a shop, to get some red bull, bcos they didn't sell it in the bar. Each time I came back I was back in conversation with the girl and was escalating kino. One time I was leaving to go to the shop I let her know and told her to give me a kiss on the cheek, which she did.

When I came back from the shop I randomly bumped into her coming out of the bathroom; I took the opportunity to kiss her. She then said I should take her number, so I did; we kissed some more. Then, kind of out of nowhere she said that her and her friend were going to go home, bcos they had been out since our soccer match earlier that day. She gave me a big kiss as she was leaving.

After they left, my buddy told me that our friend might have said something to her friend, which might have been why they left so abruptly; he didn't say what he had said though.

I text her a while later jokingly linking back to something that had come up in conversation earlier; she replied with "I will, you be good". I replied saying "I'll try, but is should be easier without you leading me astray"; to which she simply replied "the Eightfold Path!" (I had been telling her about my interest in buddhist philosophy and practice earlier).


Then I text her a while later asking if my friend had said something to upset her friend, but got no reply. That was saturday night. I didn't text her on sunday, but sent her a text on monday; I just went with the "did you know that 93% of women masturbate in the shower?"; I didn't get a reply for a while, so I thought maybe I should soften the impact of that text, so I text her saying "the other 7% sing btw "

I got a reply about 6hrs later saying "that is so random"

I replied with "do you know what they sing?"

She replied with "no, praytell"

I replied with the punchline, "you must be...."


To which I got no reply. That was last night (Monday).



I'm not sure what to do now. She is leaving to go back to the states in a week, so this weekend is that only potential I have to meet her. But this weekend is a long weekend here, so if I'm not going to visit this girl, I could do with making plans. When we talked about this weekend on saturday night, she talked about us meeting up.

I kind of need to figure out what the situation is by tomorrow, but I don't want to come across too needy. I can't tell if she's gone cold since the weekend, or what.


Any advice on how to resolve this situation is greatly appreciated.

In my opinion you lost the girl after the neediness in asking why they left so early, you essentially opened up the opportunity to create drama. Nothing slams the walls of a vagina faster then a "man" - no offense meant - trying to create drama or seek validation. Read my post on being an alpha - make a lifestyle change. And maybe you'll be able to recover the "set" - by mid week.

Cheers, Confidence.

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I didn't really ask why they left so early though; we exchanged a couple of texts, and then I asked if my friend had said something; more as a "by the way".


I would like to read your post though; could you link to it, or just let me know which section to look in?

EDIT: all good, found it; cheers Alpha

I'm thinking I might just text her and ask her something along the following lines:

ask her if she is still on for the romanian, midget wrestling on Friday

or ask her if she's gotten her outfit for friday yet.


In both cases jokingly acting like we'd arranged a crazy sounding date for Friday; just to see what she says.

thoughts?

Anything! Just do it, the timeline just gets smaller. If you get blown out ...So what. go and hook up with her friend or a different girl

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cheers guys. Needed a few responses like that just to shake me out of my head space. I read a bit about being an alpha male which was good to change my frame.

I just text her
"Hey [name], how've you been?

Listen, I'm not going to beat around the bush; I want to see you again this weekend and just wanted to see how you felt about that.

I'm sure there'll be some romanian folk ballet on somewhere if you want to do something special "


I know myself it wasn't great or anything, but I think just sending something that was remotely "forward" and changing my head space, if only momentarily, was a positive.

For sure man. Good reply. It illustrates value, confidence, humour, and indifference. Using her name is also a huge step, it sort of belittles and excites them at the same time. Worst case scenario - you take it as a learning experience, and hit the mall, coffee shop, and bar. Hopefully what you've read gave you the experience needed to become a natural alpha and improve your game without routines.


Cheers, Confidence.

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