| I lost my account from a while back, and needed some advice! Ok, so last year I discovered the PUA, decided to go out after some failure. And I found a girlfriend very quick. We broke up this summer because I'm a Jr in college and she moved after graduating. So, I decided that I should up my game this year and I am now back on track. So, here is some background on me and my women problem to help with my question.
I am probably in the best physical shape, I know I am decent looking, and I am a fun person to be with, so my dilemma was only the social game (which happens to be about 90% of it haha). I have one close friend who wings with me, he happened to meet me at a party with 3 women 3 weeks ago. We have hung out with this group of girls for three weekends in a row at least two of the 3 days of the weekends.
Girl A is with my friend J, girl B is her roomate and girl C is A's old HS friend. Usually, all three of them go out to hang with us.
Every weekend I have hooked up with girl B and went down on her last weekend, i really didnt expect to do this, because she has a boyfriend but my inner PUA said try it out for the experiance. (Sidenote: girl A suggest it isnt a 'real' relationship its on facebook and the BF probably thinks it is, my friend has told me this info 3-4 times in different conversations hes had with girl A)
Anyways, this past Thursday I hooked up with girl C at a concert.
Girl C is a skinny Asian girl, and on Thursday as girl B and I traveled to the concert, some guy approached her(who i didnt worry about cuz he seemed like a super AFC) and took her into the crowd (girl A said he MIGHT have been an old friend and that all) girl B even texted me 30 minutes later trying to find me, but who knows what she did. Drunk as I was I impulsively told myself that i should immediately find another girl (or else my ego would be crushed haha). I walked around for 2 minutes before realizing that girl C was perfectly open. I went to her, and we literally made out for about an hour straight during a 3hr concert to the point people told us to leave.
Later that day, i only proceeded to get drunker and thought that I had fucked up ever seeing either of them again. By Friday, i come to realize (or maybe a sober clear head told me) that I should not concern myself with the issue of which girl I would eventually have to choose or lose both, I went out and had fun, not knowing whether girl B knew of me being with girl C ( girl A knows though). Girl C did know that I have hooked up with B two weekends before also!
Let me give my breakdown of the girls then I will ask my question as obvious as it may be already.
Girl A: Friend of B roommate of C, currently spending a lot of time with my best friend on campus.
Girl B: she is a partier, seems like shes only out to have fun, happens to be witty in conversation and is probably one of the more attractive girls I have been with. She has a boyfriend, but has not mentioned him a single time. Shes been over to my house twice, including the friday night after I was with C. we only made out and I went down on her last week. Overall, she seems interested in me and if fun to talk about, but on the personality scale she seems only slightly above average. I know that she still hangouts with her boyfriend (she saw him last weekend and this weekend also) who lives in her hometown and does not go to my college. I'm unsure of what girl B might do if she finds out about me and girl C.
Girl C: The past 3 weekends she has turned down almost 100% of the dudes who have approached her, and only dancing with 2-3 guys the whole time shes been out. She sh!t tests everyone and it kinda turns me on, because I'm the only guy whom she has kissed here (fact confirmed by A). She seemed a bit more passionate when we kissed than B. Funny thing is that she had never been on a date until i took her to brunch today. On thursday night when she asked me about girl B, i told her "idk what to think of her, and I found out she had a boyfriend the day before and she just ran off with some dude, so f*** her." then I told her how i always thought she was attractive. Girl C is slightly more attractive (but she is skinny as hell) than girl B.
Today on the brunch date, she told me of how she hates children and doesnt want to settle (does that mean she doesnt like sex? i wasnt sure how to intepert that) and only travel the world, she likes to drink but doesnt like to party as much. She would come off as an 'artsy' type and is 17 years old but will be 18 in a month. Today she hinted at us hanging out on her birthday (Halloween night haha). To be honest, she only came here 5 years ago, but its almost impossible to tell and she seems very lonely, her and I share a bit of commonalities with our past as well, but that includes problems also (most of which I've solved or am in the process of doing)
My question is what is the next step? I feel like both women are interested, especially C because I am the only guy shes been able to connect to, and I currently like both of the women. I'm split 50/50 and literally do not know the next step. The only options I've come up with is to: Choose one of them, try to make them compete for me (which i feel might backfire and give me neither), or... totally fuck up and lose both haha.
I just wanted someone else opinion besides my friend J who's advice is :"i dont know man, you gotta square that circle yourself" lol.
Sorry for a long post, but I would love feedback, criticism and advice!
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