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exclusiveme
PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 1:08 am 
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How should a guy go about giving a gift as money to a girl who's always been by his side as a reward?


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If a girl deserves a gift give it to her but explain to her why you give her a gift. Most guys think it's a DLV but it's not and in fact many guys lose girls because they fail to reward them. A DLV is when you give her gift if she dosen't deserve it.

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If a girl deserves a gift give it to her but explain to her why you give her a gift. Most guys think it's a DLV but it's not and in fact many guys lose girls because they fail to reward them. A DLV is when you give her gift if she dosen't deserve it.
What if it's money? (Money with a good reason behind it like helping her take care of her rent etc) To reward her for making you the man you are today (cause of her, I'm able to run a successful business project), and I want to thank her.

How does one go about giving money as a gift? Due to circumstances, I'm not able to see her in person either.
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A DEMAND? I think that's pretty unacceptable behavior unless you forgot her birthday or something. I'd soft-next or possibly even hard next. If a girl actually demanded cash from me, then I'd immediately hard next her. That is just completely and totally unreasonable behavior.

She sounds like a ho.

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A DEMAND? I think that's pretty unacceptable behavior unless you forgot her birthday or something. I'd soft-next or possibly even hard next. If a girl actually demanded cash from me, then I'd immediately hard next her. That is just completely and totally unreasonable behavior.

She sounds like a ho.

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I used the wrong word. I don't meant DEMAND, sry. I meant like if a girl hints that you should get something for her..

Edit: Thank you. I've rephrased the question.
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Oh, that's entirely different. I'd probably just ignore her. She is trying to get you to fill "the provider" role, which is not a particularly good place to be.

As one person said previously, reward good behavior by doing nice things for a girl. However, rewarding a girl doesn't need to involve spending money.

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No, there's a misunderstanding.

This girl is not demanding a gift from me nor expecting me to give her gift. However, she deserves a gift because of what she has done for me.

Because of circumstances, I choosing to give money to her as a gift. But I'm not sure how she would feel about this and how I should go on about it.

None the less, I got some ideas from you guys how a girl would feel so thanks!
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A gift is only good if she deserves it for something. Nice guys fail because they use gifts to win over a girl, not because they deserved it. You ask them and they'll remain with their finger on their chins, uhhhhhhh

For example, after a great blow job or fuck, you take her out to dinner. Everything makes sense, everyone is happy.

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A gift is only good if she deserves it for something. Nice guys fail because they use gifts to win over a girl, not because they deserved it. You ask them and they'll remain with their finger on their chins, uhhhhhhh

For example, after a great blow job or fuck, you take her out to dinner. Everything makes sense, everyone is happy.
Yes, this I know. But how about when we give money? What's the rules around this?
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Be careful with giving money. It may look like a back-handed insult, like you think she needs the money.
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Be careful with giving money. It may look like a back-handed insult, like you think she needs the money.
Yes, that's what I was worried most about. Thank you.

I wonder what' the most appropriate way to give money?
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For example, after a great blow job or fuck, you take her out to dinner. Everything makes sense, everyone is happy.
I disagree. By rewarding her for good sex or BJ's, you are implying that she didn't enjoy it and she was "doing you a favour". Women love sex as much as men. So when a girl gives me great head or sex, I don't owe her shit.
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Be careful with giving money. It may look like a back-handed insult, like you think she needs the money.
Yes, that's what I was worried most about. Thank you.

I wonder what' the most appropriate way to give money?

You're asking this question on a PUA forum, so I assume you're interested in this woman sexually? The problem with giving her money is she might think she will have to pay you back with sex. This is what HB women always think whenever a Beta nice guy gives them an expensive present for no reason and this is why they often refuse presents from them.
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Be careful with giving money. It may look like a back-handed insult, like you think she needs the money.
Yes, that's what I was worried most about. Thank you.

I wonder what' the most appropriate way to give money?

You're asking this question on a PUA forum, so I assume you're interested in this woman sexually? The problem with giving her money is she might think she will have to pay you back with sex. This is what HB women always think whenever a Beta nice guy gives them an expensive present for no reason and this is why they often refuse presents from them.
Ops my bad. You are right. Hmm, I actually meant relationship. I've known her for about 3 years time based on a distance type relationship (we don't get to see each other).
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Ops my bad. You are right. Hmm, I actually meant relationship. I've known her for about 3 years time based on a distance type relationship (we don't get to see each other).
You're either in a friendship with this woman or you're in a relationship with her. It cannot be both. If it is a relationship you want with her, sex will be part of that relationship, because this is the main thing that separates friends from lovers. And giving her money is the quickest way to STOP her from wanting to have sex with you. Never give anything of value to a woman you haven't already had sex with, it will 100% guarantee that she won't have sex with you.
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