I've know this girl for several years and there has always been an attraction between us real tension. So after getting out a LTR we start talking and meet for lunch nothing serious just food and a couple beers. We lose track of time and talk till like 9 at night I'm feeling good lots of touching from both sides. Then when i walk her out i just lose it (see just out of LTR) and don't close for the kiss and who knows what else. The next day I get text and questioned about not kissing her then and there. I play it off and make a plan for her to come see me at work that night. This time i take initiative and make big moves right off the bat. good hug nice and tight without poking her with a johnson and we end up making out for several minutes before i tell her i really have to work. She made every advance and never made a bad bit of body language to insinuate that thing weren't to her liking. our schedules don't match to often but we got together as much as possible for a couple weeks. now she professes she is a single chick and can't be bothered, so i leave her alone and say thats fine. then get a text complaining that i don't talk to her anymore how should i take this? any insight would be appreciated.

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Getting Over It

She's interested, she's just trying to get you to pursue her. I'd continue doing what you're doing. Get her out, don't insist, simply state you're going to go shopping for a shirt you can use a female opinion, for example. Don't name what you guys have got, simply have fun/show her a good time and go aloof for a few days here and there to have her guessing as to what's truly going on. Her telling you she's single and enjoys being as such means eff all; go by her behavior (which is telling you she has interest in you). Don't pursue, simply go on about your business bringing her into your reality rather than the other way around. If she keeps pushing at you as to why you don't talk to her enough simply state you're busy with work, life etc (without providing details - remember mystery is the life blood of seduction). Eventually she'll get frustrated and begin pursuing you (and justifying reasons for doing so - aka backwards rationalization). Stay patient, enjoy her reactions for what they are - have a few laughs about it to yourself as her futile attempt to have you chase her).