in the last few weeks i have been seeing a girl, got an F close last saturday, and continue to hang out, she has an amazing personality and shes fun to hang out with. shes an awesome girl, I promised myself I wouldnt jump into a relationship so soon after my last gf of 4 years.

the way I look at it, I dont think I should stop getting numbers and having fun seeing how hotter girls i can get numbers from or just have fun flirting and expanding my social circle.

im not the cheating type at all, but it is early stages of the relaionship i dont want to tie myself down juuust yet because if it doesnt work out what am i left with?

I would really apprecite your input here guys

I like the perspective in black. I know how you feel after getting out of two long term relationships.

I think how you explained it here would make sense to her:

1) you got out of a four year relationships and you do not want to rebound
2) you do not want to jump into anything too soon
3) you want to make more friends before getting serious.

Then the ball is in her court as to whether she accepts this. To me your reasoning is legitimate.

Think you answered the question already bro.

Way I see things.. you should ALWAYS have other options, girls play this game themselves, and no doubt your girl has a couple betas to fall back on too.

Best thing would be meet a couple other girls, and keep them interested with occasional playful text messages every once on awhile to fall back on.

Since your getting laid, meeting new girls will be much easier as they can sense your testosterone spikes.

thanks man yeah i dont really plan on telling her lol when i go out with the boys its game on, no cheating just meeting new people, i dont want the relationship to end and then work twice as hard to get to where i am now haha.

good minds think alike haha, what you say is very very true.

As you suggested it's always a good idea to keep your options open. That said, I wouldn't make it known as some girls have very strong views on guys who date several girls concurrently. Only tell the girl as much as she needs to know. I see no issue in dating other women provided you haven't committed to one. Most women however, once they start perceiving you as boyfriendworthy will demand you remain exclusive to them, often prior to having any formal conversation on commitment.

Biggest crock of crap ever. Don't believe everything the google tells you. It's more the confidence you project when you're getting pussy that women sense which leads to attraction than anything else.

i dont plan on dating other girls, I more plan on trying to pick up and keeping them at an arms length, or just have fun improving my game picking up while being with this girl.

we both have alot of friends and we dont always tell eachother everything we a doing during our day so its not like we a joined at the hip, when i pick up i will probably just meet them out on the town another night and keep a friendly relationship, after all i am pretty good at getting out of the friend zone now if the shit hits the fan

yeah i dont agree with the testosterone thing, the no fap challege proves this.