Hey all, standard situation with a girl. Had sex and now I think she's trying to make me jealous with a shit test. Pretty sure I failed it as no reply

I promised her that when she moved into her house that if she was lonely I would keep her company. Here's the recent stuff:

Her: moving in later now, sucks as I won't be alone now

Me: ah bad times at least you won't be a loner now

Her: haha il just have to invite all the boys around. (this doesn't even make sense)

Me: go 4 it I'm sure one of them might be able to fuck you as good as I can

No reply since then either I've failed or it's a further shit test

she was kidding, lol

you got all serious and made it weird, this is the problem with texting, really easy to mis-interpret the context of the convo

but generally when a statement over text starts with HAHA, or LOL, it tends to mean the person is joking

and what exactly is she supposed to say to

''Me: go 4 it I'm sure one of them might be able to fuck you as good as I can''

sort of just dead ended yourself there, no winkies, no tounge smilies, nothing to show you're kidding, just looks like you emotionally reacted (lost congruence with the frame) and said something weird (incongruent)

her statement was basically the same as you saying, ''I want you to come over tonight, but im not sure if my 2000 other girlfriends will let me, lol''

then her being like, ''what 2000 girlfriends? well you go fuck them then, they aren't as good as me''

bad times, fixable?

Well I got a reply this morning:

her: Hahaha, yes they might be

So going by your advice I should reply with something like "Holy shit there is another superhuman out there? if you find him I shall have to meet! "

instead of "FUCK HIM JEALOUSJEALOUSJEALOUS BLAHBLAHBLAH SERIOUSNESS!"

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why say something, when there is no purpose behind it?

just cut the thread and move on, no reason to perpetuate something that serves no purpose

I understand what your saying but my mind automatically goes "If I don't reply shes automatically going to think i'm jealous/pissed off and has thus effected my life"

or would not replying get her thinking that I just don't really care if she starts fucking other guys. Thus she has to chase?

nice read btw

further info btw is that she lives miles away SPAM but moves in a couple streets away from mine in a week.

it doesn't mean don't reply, it means have a purpose

"Holy shit there is another superhuman out there? if you find him I shall have to meet! "

serves no benificial purpose, the purpose of that statement is to continue an awkward thread that should just die, for the sake of just continuing

simply start a new thread, with a new purpose and re-frame this

''hey what are you doing today?'' (then cool, blah blah blah and start a new conversation, let the old one die if you want to talk to her so bad)

text game less, the less she has access to your attention over the phone, the more she will crave your attention, and when she can't get that attention she craves, she will be more wanting to see you in person, the tension will mount and result in more sex, just keep these text convos short, and just be like, ''hey I gtg, we should hang out on blah blah'' and keep killing off the text convos, make it easier to see each other in person, harder to communicate over the phone

This is a good read man, I overthink text game a lot and has resulted in bad game before. I like this thinking tho.

I had a think before you posted this one and I doubt I'l bother responding to her text this morning. I've got a busy work filled day ahead of me and a night out with the girls from down the road/my house and same tomorrow so my week is girl filled

Last quick question, she is meant to be moving into her house friday. Plan of action to contact her around then or just wait for the chasing to begin?

what would you prefer?, this girl is highly invested in you (she had sex with you), right now it doesn't really matter,

it's like there is the friend zone, and then there is the sex zone, once you are in either zone, you have to do something serious to fuck it up

fuck up the friend zone by not being a pussy all of a sudden, or by being all of a sudden being attractive enough

fuck up the sex zone by getting incredible needy and doing incongruent shit on a regular basis (in some cases too the girl who does not continue having sex, simply does not consider sex a big investment)

both are fairly hard to break out of, when a girl has high interest, if you invite her to do something with plans, or right at the spur of the moment, neither are really a better coarse of action then the other, if she's busy she's busy, but really if she wants to hang out, she will hang out, asking her 2 days before, or 2 weeks before, or 2 hours before doesn't really make much of a difference

100% sound advice bro. Didn't bother replying and got "Im so horny right now and I want youuuuu" later that night, didn't reply as I was going out clubbing and didn't want to have a sext convo whilst trying to game. Bangin night too.

Just gonna text her "I can make you scream, texts can't. Get back." short and to the point like you said.