| Not sure if this is the right place to post this and my apologies if it's not. I don't have a lot of wisdom to share on this site. There are a lot of PUAs more skilled than I am. But I have a story to tell and I think there's something to take from it and apply.
Last night, I got off of work around 11:00pm and went to a friend's party. It was winding down, and everybody was watching a movie. I'd seen the movie 1,000 times and after staying for about 15 minutes, decided to head home.
As I was driving, a Mustang pulled up next to me with three girls inside. I was listening to a song I really enjoy and was just in a heightened state of being all right with everything. The girl in the back seat took notice of me. 21, blonde, HB8. I stuck my tongue out at her and she smiled. "Where you going?" she asked. I told her home. "Why don't you come over and drink with us?"
Total stranger. I'd never spoken to her or her two friends before. We stopped at a 7-Eleven to buy booze and then went over to her place. We all socialized outside on the patio. I got to know them all a little bit, introduced myself. Applied kino to this girl that I knew fancied me.
Eventually, everyone else went to bed. She said, "I can't believe I told a complete stranger to follow me home." ASD, right? I said, "Uh-huh, sure, I'm sure you work that corner every week." I kept joking that I was going to steal her shit when she wasn't looking, because how could I not act incredulously about the whole thing? Who doesn't at least screen somebody before inviting them over? She said, "No really. I haven't ever had a guy over. I've always worked hard and studied hard. Tonight, my cousin and her friend took me out and I decided, they're right, I need to have fun. For once." This girl confided in me that she was a virgin and it seemed like her whole life went by WHOOSH! without her having any fun. She missed out on prom and every other dance in high school. Somehow she slipped below the radar in junior college and had only gone out on several dates, none of which ever panned out. She asked me to go to sleep with her and I was looking for the candid camera.
The point I'm trying to make is this: we all try to make a good time when we interact with women. We charm them, we seduce them, and let them be taken in by us. Sometimes we feel like we're putting in effort and we don't see a return on that effort. Other times, like this time, a good time with a woman can fall right into your lap. The good time will find you. Just because.
The one thing to remember is to feel good about yourself and not be outcome dependent. I'm convinced that if I was slouched over, frowning, listening to some run-of-the mill song on the radio and wasn't emanating any good energy, this never would've happened. Put out a good vibe whether you think someone is watching or not! You will one day be surprised at what happens when you put your guard down and invest faith in a positive vibe.
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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"
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