Just to give you an idea, I'm 17 years old (Senior year in High School).

So, there is this girl that lives in the town right beside me, basically the same town just different schools. I met her through one of my friends that goes to my school (been friends with him for a long time). Saw her a couple times at parties, friends house, talked to her on FB, etc. My question is, whats her deal? I am 99% sure she wants it. But I'm confused in so many ways.

First thing is, she texts me..a lot. Like she will text me everyday and we will just have a casual conversation, you know. I actually play it pretty well when I text her, not to toot my own horn. So from this, that is one sign I can tell that she wants a relationship or whatever. Also I was thinking what if I'm in the friend zone with her, but I let her know that I think she's hot and all that stuff without being a creep.

Next, this is what confuses me. My older brother, who has read "The Game", and passed it on to me to read, is surprisingly pretty knowledgable about this stuff and said that she seems nervous around me. I think very highly of her and I guess I just didn't see at first that she was nervous around me. But the thing is she treats me differently than everyone else. The first time I hung out with her, I thought she didn't like me because she will say NOTHING but like "Shut the fuck up." (in a joking matter with a smile on) but still. It just gives me mixed feelings, but I have been reading up, and read something that some girls deal deal with their sexual anxieties by putting you down because she is nervous around you and doesn't know how to act. I have anxiety, and can easily spot/detect others with social anxiety or whatever. I haven't had a panic attack since I have been on this medicine for 6 months or so. But when i talk to her sometimes she gets like a little shaky in the face and stuff which is exactly what happened to me. So when I leave hanging out with her, she texts me almost instantly and says something funny or even just hey or something. And she is never mean or whatever over text. This makes me think she is actually insecure or nervous around me and that's why she acts like that. And she is comfortable texting me so she does that.

So, my final question is...should I pull the move?!

Although I am not aggressive and have sort have been like that my whole life; as in I do not make the final move on a girl (I flirt and touch and shit like that, but never go in for the kill) this is because I want it to be mutual...I do not want to hook up with a girl if I do not know if she wants to get with me, even if I have a really strong feeling..I still won't.

I know I should just say "Fuck it, it's just a girl, there are plenty other hot girls out there." But I actually like this girl, like she's that girl that has a KILLER personality. I generally don't think girls are funny...this girl is hilarious. I don't know, there is just something about her. So i don't want to risk it without knowing 100% what to do. Because I actually want to NOT ruin this with her.

HELP PLEASE!