Couldnt begin to tell you the amount of times it happens, but I am sure it happens to all you guys too..

You are walking down the street, in a bar, at a friends house etc.. and then a girl who is dating/engaged/married to a guy repeatedly looks at you. Maybe they dont smile or try to start conversation, but they are looking in a way that suggests they could be swayed. Surely if they were in love, they wouldnt look.. am I right/wrong?..

What I want to know is what do you think when that happens, and also if you caught your girl looking at a guy as described, how would it make you feel?. would be that upset or is it just human nature to look and look again.?

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Well? Do you check out other chicks when you dating another?

It surely is NOT an indicator they can be "swayed"!

As to them checking out a dude and getting caught, the less of a big deal you make of it the better!

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Well that's an interesting question...

All of the girls I have dated I wasn't that bothered about. And then I met some girl 2 years ago an for a short while couldn't have imagined myself with another girl.
So I wasn't that interested in locking eyes with another girl/looking at another girl.

Perhaps its just naive of me, but I am just of the opinion that if they are really into their guy, why look at another across the room more than once...

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If a Lamborghini Gallardo drove past you as you were walking down the street I'm sure you would have a very close look at it.....Doesn't mean you're going to go out and buy one

If I drove a shit car, I would double/triple take at it..
But if I had a car that I believed was of equal or higher value , I wouldn't give it a second glance.

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Same applies to her here Bro! Doesn't mean she's gonna test drive!

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Ok, I appreciate that she may not cheat, but based on your last comment- are you also of the belief then that she may be sitting there thinking that the other guy she is looking at is better than the guy she is with?.. if so, what does that make their relationship? It happens alot which is why I am so curious.

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Who cares, I Know I'm the better man all the way around.

She may be having a fleeting fantasy, as any Man might with any hot woman, Or thinking about the price of tampons. You cannot control what she's thinking anyway! Unless she takes some sort of action, there is NOTHING you can do or say, or need to worry about!!

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Couldn't say it any better - You're somebody who's piqued her curiosity for any number of reasons.

'Window shopping' happens all the time... as long as you ain't 'buying' it's all good

The same would probably happen even if they were both in a happy relationship, its perfectly natural, just think of it as a small IOI flash and a boost to your ego - social conditioning usually keeps it in check.

I used to use the Lamborgini line on my ex GF if she saw me eyeing up an HB10.

She used to reply "you would if you could afford one!"

I like your GF already!

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