so the situation is like that.. i've had a good connection with a girl which used to be in my class during high-school we had some deep conversation about life and shit and we really enjoy talking to each-other i have'nt done anything concrete because several reasons during the time and i was'nt sure how much i want her so i was just fun, i came back now from europe after 2 months and yesterday i started talking to her she told me she is a little bit sad and i managed to raise her mood during the convo.. we know eachother pretty well and we said that we'll be in touch and meet for a coffee or smt.. i suppose she know has some kind of emotions regarding me and i don't want it to fade with time so im considering setting that coffee date for this evening so it would stay fresh but it might seem a little bit needy because it's been only one day.. needless to say im not afraid of being rejected because i probably won't see her too often in the rest of my life in case nothing goes well.. and within the date.. she would probably see it in a friendly manner.. so should i after some jokes or whatever just become physical by holding hands or touching her push-pull stuff? i suppose i need to change places so it would seem like we're going through some kind of an adventure rather than a date.. how do i build attraction after i have so much comfort of 3 years?