So one of the reasons why I got into Pua, was not only to better my game but my life as well. To be alpha not just with girls but with life. So here's my story: at a young age the role of a male figure wasn't really there in my life, cause my dad was sick... So I had to teach my self how to drive and everything else.

I am now 20, and the part of my life that I haven't been able to adjust is my financial life. I never learned how to make money. I don't think any girl would want to be in my life because of this (lack of status) and it's effected me emotionally and mentally. Is it possible to get s girl? Yes. But keep her: no.

Now I don't really want to get a 9-5 and waste my life working at a dunkin' donuts I wanna take a different route, I'm sure you guys know what I mean.

So please, if someone could point me in the right direction I'd appreciate it, PM's are welcome. And any money I make I'd be glad to send your way as a 'thank you' gift. I'm a good person, and I'm tired of struggling in my life, I'm tired of crying and not feeling like a man... Please help me.

Confidence. Attitude. Mindset. ------> Manhood

believe me stop crying like a bitch, it will only reinforce the mindset that you are effeminate and "not a man".

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Goal: sleep with beautiful women on the regular

Here's a man rule for you.

"Never show weakness amongst wolves. It puts you at the mercy of everyone"

Great, guys - thanks. But I don't see how that's gonna' put money in my pocket lol.
I get what your saying, but I need financial guidance.

Are you in school?

Be the best version of yourself that you can be.

If you can afford go to go college, go.

If you can score an internship, do it.

If that internship leads to work, do it and do it well. That job will lead to a better job, and so on and so forth.

Along the way, practice empathy, but don't let anyone treat you like a pushover. Be competitive, but know there's more than enough to go around.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

you could always join a branch of the armed forces, your guaranteed to be more of a man wen you walk out of there than when you walked in, also its a steady job and girls love the uniform...

not the usual advice form this forum, and strange advice from me, but its something you should consider

Having financial security is convenient but not neccesary. Have a passion, and ambition, and women will invest in you. For example my cousin, a natural, has always been pretty much dirt poor - no car, few clothes, doesn't always have a cell phone (he's 25 now) - yet he is very passionate about the culinary arts. Do you think his having no money ever stopped him from getting laid, or having girlfriends? He's slept with about 80 women, and from what I know at least a couple dozen are HB8+.

Mindset, man, mindset. You can read books out there on how to get around having little/no money.

You're 20 years old... you're not going to be rolling in money, yet.

If you're in school, stay in school. Do what you love - Whether that's being a plumber, a lawyer or a scientist. It doesn't matter. If you go into the career field that you enjoy, the probability of your succeeding and advancing will be greater than if you go into a field that you are miserable in. If you start off making $40K a year, thats ok. You can move up with the proper motivation and work ethic.

Find a part-time job for the time being. Go through various jobs if you have to. You may laugh at people who work at Mcdonalds or Dunkin donuts but I know friends who have worked there for 4-5 years and are making 2-3 bucks over min wage and moving up the restaurant ladder.

Seriously though, I can't stress the "you're 20 years old." I feel as if so many people my age want to be making 40K (Or more) a year and yet the likelihood of that is rare. It's possible but I'd rather focus my efforts on improving yourself in other ways. If you truly do want to just work your butt off at 20 than join the army or find some factory work. You'll be making some money but again the likelihood of 40K a year (or more) is low.

you forgot the most important thing. Action.

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read some books. Theres an abundance of information.

The book: Rich Dad, Poor Dad is a good start.

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he