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What are some nonawkward ways to use FREEZE-OUTS? It seems if a female declines on sex, it'd be awkward if you just pull out your laptop or whatever, like she'd know you're ignoring her because she's not having sex with you, and that might upset her.
Well the whole point of freezouts is to make the new situation (stopping with escalation to sex) more awkward than continue towards sex.
The main, i cannot stress that enough is to BE UNAFFECTED and cool with not having sex. It's not that you don't want it, but you don't have a need to have it. You have more important things to do.
You could just go: "No problem, lets play chess/games/watch movie/something that you would do with a friend". SHE will find that awkward, but you will seem so cool with it.
Don't argue logically. I can give you an example when i got away simply with being consistent and giving her a non sexual reason.
I needed to find some dancers (she is a dancer) in a club, and I asked her if she knows some good and hot dancers with big boobs. She goes "You will not find good dancers with big boobs." At that point I go: "Let me see..." and start grabbing her boob (we were in a car, I was driving). She goes "Nooo what are you doing?!!" and pushes my hand away. I moved my hand away, said: "Ohh cmmon." and tried again. She didn't oppose this time and i touched her for like 10 seconds, long enough to get a bit sexual, then i made a semi compliment about her boobs and changed the topic. UNAFFECTED. Oh yea, and she has a boyfriend for a year or so.
Hope you get the point of freezeout now. She declines sex, you make the situation awkward and suddendly she wants to have sex again (because it is less awkward than the current situation)