Hey,

I ran into some trouble and it puzzled me. I'll start by giving a short version and below you can find the whole story. It's quite a read but I'd love some feedback on it and maybe one of you can solve the puzzle!

Short version

Went out, danced and flirted with a bunch of girls of the same group. Was having fun, much attantion and then BAM all gone! Should I have a picked a target instead of playing all of them? Honestly ... I don't know.

Long version

Okay, straight to business, this is what's up. Yesterday I was out with some friends, everything was going fine. At a certain point 4 girls come and join us, one of them was the sister of the girl who was with us. Getting to know eachother, you know, some chit chat, nothing important at this point. I was gonna get some food and told this one girl to come with me. She complies and we have a lil talk while waiting for the food. I get back in the group and decide to lead the group inside the club. Still everything according to plan, I wasn't the biggest talker of them all, I come out of a LTR and don't have many funny stories to tell yet. So once we're inside I dance with all the girls, grind a bit at a certain point the two sisters were grinding me at the same time. I must admid ... I felt good! One of the two sisters told me she was in a world cup dancing ( qualifying herself BIG TIME!). She was definitely the most beautiful one, but I kept just dancing with all 5 the girls and got 3 of their numbers. Now this is where it all gets messed up. The beautiful girl gave me some real IoI's she kept dancing towards me and if I was looking at another girl dancing she started dancing with her. Now as the night proceeded the girls gave me less and less attention. I didn't notice it SPAM, but now that I look back on it their interest was fading. The less attractive sister called me a player. I said she didn't know me. Now I was getting more drunk by the hour ( Note to myself : reject drinks when you start to feel the alcohol getting to your head! ) The girls started to make less eye contact with me and if I wanted to dance now I had to reach out for their hands. ( maybe I shouldn't have done this too much : shows courage and leading, but after a while it becomes DLV and you start to look like a bagger, definitely want to avoid that! ) The girls decide to go home and the rest of the night my game was off. I got outplayed by a friend and my gaming for the night was over. Now for the worst part, ready or not here it comes : The less attractive sister told me that her sister told her she was beeing annoyed by me coming to her ... BooM! Three hours earlier the girl asks me if I'd sleep the next night at their place because there is a party close to them and now this. I'd probably did give her a lil more attention, but still... Did she blow the whole set for me by saying so? Should I have gone for her and the let the rest be ... I don't know. Hope one of you can help me out.

The night is only a failure if I don't learn from it, so any advice is appreciated.


- Achilles