So I was at an underwear party and a girl gave me her number. I've got a good body and that's the only reason she gave it to me, we didn't even talk. However, I'm a social retard and I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I got her number in the day and at night she wanted to hang out late but I couldn't. It's been 2 days.

Text conversation:
me: "Hey this is X, that sexy mofo you gave ur number to. You still want to hang out? Was looking forward to seeing you, you're pretty cute"
her: "Where you hanging out at? And you should send me a photo, i'll send you mine."
me: "I'm at friend's place but I should go to bed - would you want to hang out later?"
her: "yeah i'm down"

Today, 2 days later:
me: "What are you studying at school?"
her: "I'm undeclared."
me: "I'd like to know more about you but I don't want to give a false impression. . . what are you looking for?
her: "Nothing more than just friends."

That was several hours ago and I didn't say anything after. I thought, like an idiot, that she'd just offer me sex with no strings attached.

Yeah I screwed up, but can I turn this around? Not a big deal but she's pretty hot. I assume she was hoping to hook up, I don't even fucking know her. I'm worried she was just horny before and now its gone and my texting kind of sealed it.

Appreciate help

it seems to me that you passed on the chance to hang out with her, and she had a chance for second thoughts. you did not talk to her a lot you said, so of course it has been easy for her to talk herself out of hooking up with you, regardless of your attractiveness.

then, you let her lead the interaction. and, of course, she did what every girl would do at this stage: friendzoned you.

I would try to treat this as a shit test, i.e. ignore it, and game on. set up a meeting, and escalate.
worse comes to worse, you will still be in the friendzone.

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Problem is not sure how to proceed. My deal is this: girls are always shocked at how good my physique is, but I don't get to show off much, and that's basically my only asset cuz I don't socialize. Don't know how to flirt over the phone, or text - should i forget all that shit and just ask her out over the phone, see if she picks up? Should I not text since we have nothing to talk about yet?

I could just invite her to my place to "watch a movie" and see if she's down - should i do it asap and not wait till weekend?

You need to work on your game. Just from reading your text, you have to work on being alpha. If your were alpha, your convo would have been a lot different.

I should add, if you want hot girls, you can't fake being alpha. You have to be alpha. I been put to the test. This includes stepping up to guys who try to take the girls from me that I am out with.

Sup my dude.
Am I right when I say, you have a lack of confidence?
Right now I'd advise you to work on building a solid inner game and socialise more with different people, girls and guys. Just to get over your social awkwardness.
Ouch is right, even if you try to fake being Alpha and Confident, women can smell a fake miles away.
I suggest reading some books on becoming more confident and Alpha, but we all know going out and putting your knowledge into practice is the most important part.

As for this girl who wants ta bang you, no strings attached!
Go For It! but now you need to take lead,
Invite her out for a drink first with the option to bounce to yours, after (using some plausible deniability ofcourse).
I reckon a good lay will do your confidence a world of good.

Goodluck.

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Thanks for reply

How can I get practice without seeming like a creep? I go to Uni but I'm flying solo basically, and I can't really party/drink for personal reasons. I wanna be done being a loner though.

And what books would you recommend?

If your think your a creep, just accept the fact you are and practice. Be prepare to screw up a lot, and I mean A LOT! But read PUA material and learn from those mistakes. A lot of the material out right will seem like garbage until you start talking to girls. Once you screw up, or succeed, it will start making sense. It took me over 2 years to get where I am at right now, and that is with dedication.

If you want to succeed, here is some advice.

1. Accept failure, and learn from it. Don't cry over it. (I have messed it up with tons of girls)

2. Be dedicated, and most importantly, have fun doing it. If your not having fun, your not going anywhere. However, I can tell you that is painful starting off, but you will reach a point when it starts to get fun.

3. Can't be rolling solo. Have to start working towards a social circle. A quality social circle is a big bonus! If a girl meets your friend, and there really cool, it will make you look cool. If your friends are looser, your gonna seem like looser. Also, most girls hooking up with guys or dating guys generally meet through social circle. It's 10 times easier gaming a girl you met through social circle then cold approach.

4. Know the type of girl your looking for. Not on looks, but her lifestyle, what she does, what activity she enjoys, etc... You don't like to party, so you would not go for girl that party. This will make your game more solid because now, your setting standard for her to meet, and you have her working towards it. And what is most amazing is that once you find a girl with those quality, you just have that connection.

Check out RSD BluePrint, is 20 hour long video on inner game. I have watched it about 5 times. For outer game, find your style, and look up instructor with that style.