I know I am biding my time waiting on my moment to happen. But I sit back and look at my hair, my norwood, my thinning on top, and I realize my face is too masculine/manly to be considered young anymore. I tell myself I look young but I look in the mirror too much and have so much chaffing on my face from not shaving a lot and the huge forehead. I see these younger guys on Facebook and girls talk about how stud they are, how hot they are, and how they go to the gyms and some of them come off as d-bags. It truly bothers me that at 31, I really missed out on my youth and that discovery stage. I don't know whats so exciting about being 31. Most other people my age look older than me because they were drinkers and partiers and I feel they are just a little out of my league and would bring me down. I want to lie about my age but feel even if I do, I still would come off looking like a receding 25 year old compared to some other 25 year olds that are cooler, more fit, have friends, can party, hold their liquor.


Do I have any chance upon making changes(emotional and physical) to get the kind of girls that would go for the guys I described, the younger, cooler types. It sucks when a 25 year old says 30 is old, i want to lash out at them. I can be just as energetic I believe as a 25 year old and can do all the things they can do physically if I join a gym. Its not just about women Its also about being a dude that these younger guys would want to chill with like they would with their already friends and not leave him out for "younger" things. This is bothering me a lot. I'm not a dad.

you should first change your mindset.
then the rest will follow. you can be what you want yourself to be..

maybe you cant become younger, but you can definetely start taking care of yourself, grooming yourself and look like a million dollars everytime you go out..
shit im 22 but i hangout with guys that go from 29-45 yrs old and fuck they always got their hands on hot milfs and even girls around their 25's ...

i got to tell you that many chicks i had met they have crushes on guys over their 40's and usually its because
their personality, body, and the image they portray [interesting, adventurer, jock, funny, mysterious ect]

i mean you could be one of them.. if you want to be. and if you work on yourself aswell.

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