Hey guys, so I want to get this girl specifically and heres the back story you guys should know. So this girl and i were good friends in highschool and then near the end of highschool she was going out with this guy who was sort of a douchebag. After the first year of uni she broke up with him and she hasnt had a boyfriend since. He was also her first boyfriend. She totally hates him now and does not associate with him. So me and her did talk to each other for about 4 years, as we naturally grew apart. Then about a year and a half ago she saw me from far away somewhere and when i got home she messaged me. Since then we've been txting eachother, (she goes to school far away) almost everyday and i've used some of the tips i've read here and all that. Its extremely hard for her to meet with guys when shes home because her parents are very strict. And she said shes not looking for love. Shes also a virgin. Over the last year and a half even though I havent really seen her(exceot for SPAM) or hung out I knid of got some feelings for her X_X and its preventing me from even thinking about other girls. ABout 5 months ago she texted me around 2am and said Im not looking for a relationship and i said how does that relate to me and basically tried to tell her i dont like her even though I do. We recently started reading fifty shades of grey together, she started and i was curious so i started, hoping to escalate sexual talks. At first she was uncomfortable but i told her that we are adults and should have no problem talking about stuff like this. She agreed. We are still talking, I want her now, what do i do? im not a pro u guys are, i need your help