I saw this HB8-9 online many months ago on facebook. We have some mutual friends in common.
Started chatting with her.. bit of funny banter and back and forth.. but a couple of times I had to email her twice as she stopped emailing. Each time I emailed her twice she did reply. Replies were ok but nothing special so I stopped.

Fast forward 6 months, I have a new FB picture where I look much better and a bit of better social proofing on the page. I am also being more direct with woman in a sexual nature and having a lot more luck..

So I decided to message her again just a simple 'hi'. She responded soon after.. we went back and forth with a few emails and I told her that she looked 'sexy' in one of new pics on public view. She returned it saying I look like someone famous and told me I looked 'very Handsome' in my photo.

I saw this as the signal so said I wanted to take her for a drink. She gave quite a long reply with a bit of banter and said something to the effect of how I came across very confident and how she hopes it isn't arrogance otherwise couldnt go for a drink. She then said she was free next or the following weekend. She couldnt do this week 'but would have if she was free'. Seemed like a good response to me.

So I emailed her back a simple one liner with 'How about next Sunday for 8pm for a drinky drink.. and how I its confidence and not the arrogance so she is in safe hands. (something to that effect).

I sent that message on Saturday. Facebook tells me she read it 2 hours later.. we are now on Tuesday and no response. She did mention she was going out with a 'friend' on sat night so I dont know if that was a date or what..

I have seen her on a dating site a while back so I know she is prob very experienced on the 'going for a date scenario', but cant work out if I did anything wrong or what my next move should be... any ideas?

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The "Arrogance/Confidence" line was a shit test to see if you could walk the walk!

It would have been better to just ignore her "Shit Test" and move forward setting up plans for the meet. I would suggest sending her a message on Wed/Thurs evening and say "I never got word back from you about this weekend, meeting a friend if we are not on for Sunday at 8pm."

If she is interested in you, this will cause her to be curious about the words "a friend" and she will ask about them. Be vague in your answers to her questions as to keep the gender of your friend from her. If she asks for a name, then I would go with a gender neutral name. If she flat out asks Boy/Girl? then go with your gut.

If she is uninterested, she will say "It is ok if you want to meet them instead" if she does this, say "Are you sure? I made plans with you!" then if she says "yes" then say "Ok, maybe we can do it another time" and don't look back, this will probably make her wonder "Who is this guy who just blew me off?"


Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Some good advice there. Do you think I failed the shit test and that's why I haven't heard back?

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