OK. To start, I had a girlfriend whom I've had decent results with in the past having sex. I had watched porn every day several times a day since I was probably 15 or 16, and I am in my mid twenties now.

She had to manually stimulate me most of the time to get it up or I have to myself, but beforehand I am semi-erect. I was decently attracted to her, and if we have sex without a rubber I have no problems keeping an erect penis once I am inside of her (sometimes can be a bit hard to get in, but once I am banging her it is fine) And I last a normal amount of time with her 10-15 min sometimes. With a condom I have lasted that long before, but usually it is much harder and I went flaccid and had to take them off.

Now I date another girl. A girl who i find SMOKING hot. At points making out I am hard, semi hard, ect. But I am limp after I have an initial erection sometimes and need to jerk it to get a full erection before intercourse. At all times though, if she manually stimulates me (hands not oral) I can get it up and orgasm. When it comes to penetration though, here is the problem.

With this girl, I need stimulation like my old girlfriend, aka I need to jerk it until I put the condom on then shove it inside her and start banging, or I go limp. Without a condom I lasted like 40 seconds, and with a condom it was like 30 seconds.

I stayed away from masturbating or did only once a week the past like 3 or 4 weeks now. This might have been why I came so fast both times I've had intercourse with her.

I can really only stay hard in doggy style or associated positions. I feel like it is weird.

Why the heck with this girl do I need to jerk it until I'm hard, then shove it in, then I last like 40 seconds? It feels like I've jerked so much to get hard, then when I am hard it's too easy to come because of this. It is hard for me to achieve erections, then I come too easy?

I guess it is worth stressing that I was hard as a rock during the intercourse without a condom and let myself go. Are guys with porn induced ED usually able to orgasm with handjobs from a partner, have the kind of sex I had, and orgasm fast?

I did the little test they have too. They say if you can wank it with no porn and no porn fantasies, yet get erect through just touch, you don't have porn induced ED.

I did so, and with barely any images popping in my head at all, was able to. I'm still not sure though

lol look up kegals and jelqing

I'd see a doctor. Believe it or not, there's lots of sex medication out there that helps with this type of stuff.

Well i think there is only one way for you to find out if you have porn ED and that's to stop watching porn. I know, I know, I probably sound like your mother or a goddamn priest but if you want a healthy sex drive you might have to make sacrifices.

On the other hand it could be physical, ED can be a sight of heart disease or a number of things