Ill get right into it. Get a girls number this afternoon, not enough time to develop attraction (late for lunch), but she was looking and smiling at me the whole time so she probably just liked my look.

Later I text her saying it was great meetin her and we'll have to get together. She agrees. Through most of lunch Im texting this girl, joking about her reading my mind and stuff (instant responses the whole way). Then after a good chunk of texting she mentions shes seein someone and wants to be friends.

Her: i must say i never give random ppl my number. i must tell you tho i am in a relationship right now. so i dont want to get your hopes up. sorry but we can be friends.

me: lol i have too many friends as it is, it would be tough

her: oh sorry. I hope we can you seem like a really nice guy.

me: thank you. and i am lol. im still up for hanging out

her: same are you a coffee type or tea?

So thats the sitaution, she seems down to hang out. Im thinking of acting as though shes single and progress business as usual.

But whats the deal with girls who give out their numbers if they arent single? Ive asked some of my girlfriends and they said they never have, or they just gave a fake number.

If a girl in a relationship gives you her number then she is 100% into you, she might tell her self she won't do anything but in the back of her head she knows she is already starting the cheating process.

You told her you have enough friends and implied that you want more and she still was willing to go out with you for coffee which tells me she is into you for sure.

Do you think she told her bf "I met this really cool guy and Im going to go for coffee with him!" haha her bf has no clue you exist and he never will...she put her self in a bad situation for a reason and it was not just because she wants a new friend lol

thats what I was thinking, typical cognitive dissonance.

Ill contiue busiess as usual. Updates as they occur.

Think about it this way. Single women don't give out their numbers unless they deem you as worthy, and like you....so why would someone in a relationship who has much more to loose give you her number? She's into you but expect lots of shit tests! and lots of "I have a bf".

So I hung out with her tonight.

I started working on some stuff when she said she couldnt hang out because she was with her BF. Then after I checked my phone she said she wanted to go for coffee. I picked her up and we just went to a small place to talk. Chatting was pretty deep and we got to know each other. Her BF kept texting her and at one point she had to answer a call because he said she "sounded weird"(she told him she was going to bed).

We had strong eye contact the entire time and her smile was just beaming. I eventually asked her why she gave me her number joking with her. She replied that when I asked I was straightforward and genuine and I wasn't awkward one bit (I am getting better in that regard).

There was no chance to make convo overly flirtatious though. I moved us outside where we talked and I did some light arm touching talking to her. Before I took her home I leaned in for a kiss, resistance of course but she wasnt outraged or anything (def to soon). She said something along the lines of '

I'm not that kind of girl',

I replied 'I know you aren't, I was just thinking about how your here with me now and you've complained about your BF this whole time'

She played it off saying she's just really pessimistic and likes to complain about things.

I joked with her about that then made our way home. When I dropped her off I said to her I think she really wants to kiss me, but I understand the reason why. I think I made her feel guilty unintentionally. And I finished it with let me know when you're ready. She thanked me for then evening and wanted me to let her know when I got home safe.

Strange situation. I guess she gave me her number cause I stand above her clingy BF. I can tell she enjoyed our time out, lots of smilig and eye contact, I made her laugh alot.

I don't know what my next move should be. Seems like alot of work, and I wouldn't want to shatter a relationship for no reason, but the attraction is still there.

I'll let her contact me and see how things playout but I may just next her.

This used to happen to me ALL. THE. TIME.

And? what did you do? Next?