Hey guys..

I am writing this post to see if anyone can write how they managed to cross that inevitable barrier of not being able to flat out ask a girl on a date, to doing it whenever you want.

This is my current situation... I am building up my self confidence, cycling a lot, my band is doing really well and i have a great social circle.. Girls who are friends with me tell me I am an idiot for not having any self esteem, but I just cant get out of that hole and need help.

There is this girl.. She is beautiful... she works in my local shop and i see her once a week.. I have built up a great rappor with her and whenever i walk into the place her face lights up and she just talks and talks.

Tonight I went in there and she lit up and asked how i was and what Id been up to.. I pushed some jokes on her and she laughed at me, gazed into my eyes as i spoke.. went all nervous as I was talking to her.

I Just want to ask her out.. Her body language is clearly that of someone who is comfortable but still a bit shy around me..

i JUST CANT ask her out... I dont know what it is, its the only part of my life at the moment which is holding me back from being happy..

So guys i throw this to the floor.. How did you all get over that barrier where you went from someone who couldnt get in your head that women arent on the pedestal and just asking flat out.

I would also like to add that I do not fear rejection so much... I have been rejected a couple of times and its not something i dwell on..

Help me


Jax -x-

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From the Desk of Jax
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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Ask her which days she can't go on a date. Which ever days she doesn't mention say "which is best for you?" then ask her "what time is the best time for you to be romanced?" when she replies say "Ok I have to think about it.....ok thought about it see you at ****** at ****** on ******* then!"

Hey presto she asked you on a date.