About a week ago I went out with a pal and he brought along a girl who worked with him at his bar, I wasn't too interested but nowadays when women are around I cant help but game them. Its almost a subconscious thing. Anyway, I only spoke to her a few times in the night, a couple of negs and few qualifying questions, "so what are your plans for later in life?". I also cold read her like a champ, early on in the night my friend told me she was 29 so I told her how she must feel like shes lagging behind her friends (it was a sincere concern and not rude) and her biological clock must be ticking very loudly to which she laughed and agreed. Between all of this I was still on the prowl, talked to lots of people and made some new friends.

So the night ended badly, my pal bumped into his ex which he is still really sore about, I tried my best to comfort him but when I went to the bar he left without saying goodbye (the rude bastard) and it was just me and this chick. Anyway, needless to say now I am alone with her I thought fuck it so escalated like a dog, was kissing and number closed within about 30 seconds. Next thing we left and walked to her place but I got LMR outside hers, she said she lived with her mum etc etc bullshit bullshit so we made out some more ended up rolling around in a bush somewhere but I still couldn't get close to the pussy. I called it a night and called for a cab and that's when she said I know we can't date because you don't want to (I told her earlier I was really enjoying single life) but we can be fuck buddys if you'd like, obviously at the time I said yes.

Now I am starting to wonder whether having a fuck buddy will interrupt my game, I had one just after I split up with my ex and I am not sure if it was that or just emotional baggage that stop me from fucking.

Any one have any thoughts on this? Can having regular sex destroy your ambitions? I know athletes deliberately obstinate from sex to be at the top of their game but is that true with PU? Any input appreciated

Oh and here is a pic, the body's probably a seven. Bit more of and arse than I would like but still good;

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i dont think that having a fck buddy would ruin your game bro.. hahaha because sooner or later, you're gonna want another woman, its human nature .. We can never satisfy our thirst for something new haha ) just enjoy it and look for more.

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A few things.

One, what is your goal in Pickup? Is it to get a girlfriend? To have regular sex? To have many fuck-buddies?

You improve your skill, sure. That can be a goal. But ask yourself the deeper question, WHY are you improving your skill?

Sex is just as much part of the game as is approaching and managing dates and so forth. If you suck in bed, well, you gotta work on it. And the best way to improve is through practice...with a real person.

So what's your goal here?

Good question Tr@veler so ill try and answer it;

My goal is to be that guy who walks into a room and owns it, women want him and men want to be him, I know it sounds corny as fuck but that's one goal and the second is to increase my social circle and the quality of people in it. The people I know seem just too grounded, they dont seem willing to go out there on a whim if you know what I mean and as far as the sex goes im confident enough in that department believe me haha

I love this forum, its like a free psychiatry visit

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