hi guys,

so this is my first post on this forum, so i might give you a quick overview about my current situation:
i'm 22, never had a girlfriend and my last lay was 5years ago... I'm not insecure talking to women and stuff, i just never get it the right way
i was introduced to this scene about 3 weeks ago by a friend who gave me "The Game" by Neil Strauss, after reading the book i searched the internet for videos and forums and finally ended up here!
so far (in this 3 weeks ) i read some guides, rewatched "The PickUp Artist" with Mystery (knew the show few years ago but didn't realized the connection) and also watched some workshops by Mystery on youtube... but i know that doing it by yourself is the only way to get it right!


so here is my question:
as i am working a lot, i thought about trying some stuff at work. i've already seen the reports about gaming as waiters and stuff, but i think it depends on your job right?
i am working in a gym (or 5 gyms in 3 cities if this is a necessary info) run by me and my dad. therefore the problem about losing my job by hitting on girls doesn't really exist here, plus as a gym trainer i could always have a reason to approach someone...

- am i right about that the circumstances of your job depend on wether gaming is okay or not?

- or would you say gaming at work is never a good option?

- what about problems breaking rules, like i can't use the 3-sec rule as i can't open a set at the check-in where other customers also wait to check-in ?

- any gym-gaming ideas?

thx so far
Fred

If I were to pick the top twenty jobs to try and pick up females at, personal trainer would be there.

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I have a strong policy about fucking chicks in the work environment... Never a good option. Unless your dad owns the place and doesnt care. This has to be a great DHV. I used to work at a gym and it was a gold mine. I say go for it...

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Well, I don't think MM (Mystery Method) would work too good in a work environment. At this point I would go for a more natural type of game. Ofcourse you could try some of the more subtle techniques, like negging and so on, but don't wear a large flashy hat with neon-lights, and don't bring your magicians suitcase.

I've gamed a couple of girls at work aswell, I work as a salesmanager, so basically I'm their boss. So far there hasn't been any trouble, some might be a little shy when I meet them back at work after we've had sex, but that's just a matter of setting realities.

I know a lot of people say "Don't shit where you eat", but to be perfectly honest, if anything, it has only increased their preformance when I am on my shift. I suppose they want to make a good impression

I say go for it! But I would also recommend lurking about the forum a little (read up on Natural Game, Body Language etc.) and you may want to read "How to become an Alpha Male" by John Alexander. It's not one of those "Someone gave me a bad look, I'm gonna punch them in the face!" kinda styles which I've sadly seen people doing, thinking they're alpha, but after you've read it, you simply feel awesome

I hope to see you write a field report about this!


Best of luck - The Dice

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Never pick up women at your job. Never.

Why?

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def. going to try some subtle stuff! the rest wont happen anyway as I'm wearing working-cloth
alright, any thread-advice here? still kinda lost in the forums tbh but thanks for the book advice!

field report will follow when i prepared my natural game knowledge and tested a few days



@IwantEasyLove: talking about co-workers OR customers? or both?

If it all blows up and goes wrong it's... Horrible. People constantly talk about what happened with the two of you, you will hear clandestine whispers from her work friends and you will not be able to escape constant reminders and all that shit. The SPAM is fucking horrible.

Especially if, like the girl I had a work romance with, tells everyone that you raped her and you have to go to a hearing and stuff. Fucking evil bitch.

*shudder*

Sometimes you gotta learn the hard way.

A wise man once said, "don't dip your pen in the company ink". If it goes bad, you'll both still be there, rumors will spread and it's not going to be fun for either of you.

shut up and get more girls

might be right, but i'm still talking about my customers, not my co-workers

I've gamed 4-5 girls at my workplace, no problems at all! Might've just been lucky, or perhaps it's because I'm more of an assistant manager if anything.. Then again, I live in a small town, where you are bound to run in to some of your co-workers when you have a night on town.

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Go for it dude. You have a golden opportunity in the workplace with 5 gyms in 3 different cities you have an excellent environment with a broad range of chicks.

My tip would be not to really focus on gaming them but more on being social and making your presence known. Trainers usually get a lot of attention from girls in all of the gyms I have been to so I know you can game based on creating a certain reputation/popularity. Calibrate based on your strenghts or weaknesses. If you are extroverted and make friends easily then take the more indirect and high valued path. If you are introverted and skilled at going direct then do so. There is a lot less risk going indirect imo.

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