This thread belongs in relationships, but I've been on a hiatus from posting after PUA-ing the girl of my dreams. What started out as extremely casual grew for 7 to 8 months into a relationship with a girl I trust and love. However, she's abroad in Spain, and will be for 4 more months.

In retrospect, I can see how our relationship hasn't been long enough to deserve moaning and groaning, but I've just graduated University, joined a teaching corps, and moved into the middle-of-nowhere Mississippi to help kids. Moving here has been one of the hardest transitions in my life and the problem is that my girl won't write me. She's getting on Facebook, adding new friends, and uploading pics -- but won't write me back.

She will hit me up between 3am and 7am her time when she's fucked up, but that doesn't work for me -- what on earth do I want to hear a drunk girl babble about ever? So, the question comes down to: 1. Do I write her, tell her how I feel, and that I miss her, or 2. Hang up the towel and take this next week to get over her?

BTW: Before I left to train for the teacher corps (6 weeks, we made it through fine) she almost started a conversation about having a relationship, which -- when I was hesitant to have -- she pulled off from immediately and said, "I would never put you in that situation before you left for the most important opportunity in your life." Similarly, when she left for Spain, as much of a struggle as it was, I told her, "I don't want to stand in your way." My reasoning is that I adamantly believe in [i]you bring what you got to the table and I'll bring what I got, I don't want to control you and I don't want you to control me[/i], but I'm not interested in a girl who wants to bring what she's got to every guy that suits her.

So bros, I'm struggling. I've been bounced around place to place because I've yet to find permanent housing for 2 months, I've been working 60 hour weeks and through the weekends, I need some solid footing and advice on a game plan other than, "Just leave it alone and see what happens." And if it is the case that this is the only game plan, can someone provide some advice on how to do that?

Best to All,
Conan[/i]