Great Thread. Lots of Good advice.

I am going through something similar. The girl I love who is my mistrses has left me cause she loves me too much and needs more of me than I can give her. She cut me off intimately so I cut the friendship. This started 4 weeks ago. Three weeks ago, she emailed me a half dozen times telling me she loves me and that I broke my promise never to leave her as she would never leave me but still insisted that our break up is hard to deal with. She did not hint at any type of alternative to get us back to where we were. She has been the best fuck of my life. It's been over 2 weeks since I heard from her after I made it clear that we should not be contacting each other.

I have been advised to stick to my guns and not contact her and wait for her to call. She has yet to call. We also work together but have not been together since the break. She is scheduled to return on the weekend of thanksgiving to replace me while I go out on vacation for a week.

I have been in contact with other workers who have been contacting her and letting me know what she is doing. Initially she emailed and said she was crying but with no indication that this break up is wrong. I found out that she went to a woman's church group in Seattle for a retreat.

I miss her. She is hot, pretty and fun to be with.


This is so hard for me.


We used to fly places together in my airplane and love each other.

Any feedback it appreciated.

Struggling.
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So why if you love this girl you don't want to express it? You want her to be just a fuck, yet you create a post about how much you miss her.

Loose the ego and get in touch with her. Tell her you like her but you want to take things one day at the time. No assumptions, no great plans, just the two of you getting to know more about each other, and having fun together.

You are emotionally involved with your "mistress", so she's out of that category already.

She hasn't contacted you cause YOU pushed her away, so don't complain.

Do what your guts tell you, but I think you know very well what the next move should be.

P.S. In the future, do not date coworkers. Too much inconvenience.

Good luck

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Women will always want more in the end. They will not be content being a mistress. Do you really love her or do you just miss the great sex? Looks like it's just the sex because you broke the friendship when she stopped being intimate. So go find yourself another great mistress.

Thank you guys for your feedback. I stopped contacting my mistriss after studying a guide to get your girlfriend back. I am still emailing her at work but I am only discussing work issues. I am older and I love her. She says she loves me but there was never a plan on how we could manage our love to make it grow. She just decided to "be friends". Emotionally I am beyond that. I didn't plan on being here in this situation but that is where I am. She contacts me through email at work to discuss minor issues. I am trying hard to believe in the course "to get my girlfriend back". The primary objective is no contact or very little contact until she expresses interest in more than just being friends. The course I am taking initially asks, "is she worth it?" And I believe yes she is. The course also advises not to tell her I love her or ask for her to return, and not to accept "just be friends", so that is what I am doing. It is a difficult road and I am looking for answers and appreciate your feedback.I don't just want another mistress. I really did not plan on getting involved with this woman. She wants to get married and have a family. I have not agreed with this nor disagreed.

Maybe I just need another mistress but that is not what I want.

I told her I would support her decision that we not be intimate and again that takes not being near her or talking to her because we are like magnets when we get together with uncontrollable poles that attract.

Unfortunately I am married but there is no spark between me and my wife. There is no romance, no happiness when we are together. Our conversations are about what I am doing wrong. I have been married for 15 years and our friendship has never grown.


I am waiting for my love to return.

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Did you ever see her or sleep with her again? What has happened in the last ten months with her?

J. Bennet