A little over a month ago I got the number of a HB8 from the local bar I got to. We had alot of common so a day 2 was pretty easy to get. After the cafe we go home and start a movie. After a bit I finally escalate and before I know it I'm were goin down on each other and getting ready to fuck.

Following this day we hang out some more, get to know each other (tonnes in common), go to my friends shows, watch movies, hang out, fuck like animals. This is gonna sound lame but she told me she really liked me (Im not taking that as her commiting fully but i thought it meant something)

That is, after one weekend I get no contact, I was fine with that. I try to set up dates and she agrees then flakes, thats fine I can deal. But after awhile I message her asking her, something along the lines of "I dont need to be front and centre in your life, I just want to know if you can be real with me". She responds saying how she doesnt want a relationship, she always gets into one after getting out and thats what she thought was gonna happen again. I laugh it off saying we arent gettin married and we should just have fun which she agrees. I also asked if her offer to paint her naked still stood(im an artist), she replied yes.

Following this, constant flaking and no contact. So now I'm at the point where I've stopped all contact. I've already hooked up with a random at a party and I have a date with a cute Macedonian chick this weekend, but...

I CANT GET THIS GIRL OUT OF MY FUCKING MIND!

Literally, just this morning I had a dream about her. Every small little thing she did, when I see or hear done by other people reminds me of her. Hearing her name twists my stomach. I fucking hate this and I don't want to be like this anymore. I'm taking all the necessary steps to move on, not to mention Im in Uni so Im surround by girls now, but its soo hard.

Sorry for the big post, but I really need help on this.

Move on of course, not as easy as it sounds I know, 10 girls later you will likely forget about her!

She does however have all the plausibility to become a FB.

Send this text:

get-her-heart-racing-from-this-simple-t ... highlight=

Stay distant however. and one evening just straight up ask: DTF??

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Lmao, I actually spent some time trying to find that exact text. Should I personalize it more and drop the coke lemonade gag or keep it?

Trust me I'm trying my best, I don't get oneitis easily anymore. Infact I don't think I would even call this oneitis, it's just plain obsession. Even when I was with her I didn't see it lasting long because I'm always moving and can't be tied down. I dunno. If this sounds weird to you just imagine how I feel.

p.s Also It may have something to do with that fact that shes 5'5, has massive DD's, blue eyes and blonde hair

I changed it up and used it...worked great on 3 targets LOL "Diet Pepsi-Diet Coke" because most girls drink one or the other (if they drink soda).
I have been there, even while fucking other girls...it happens! It will pass.
LMFAO ...who would blame you!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Thanks for all your advice heywood, it helps alot. Ill let you know how things develop

Yeah man I get what you mean, in one of these SPAM even tho I have quite a hot fuck buddy.

My "advice about women" girl told me after I explained my situation to her that the girl I'm talking about obviously loves to chase without realising it.

Girls love to chase without even realising it, as soon as you start texting them on a schedule it all becomes a bit "oh well this is boring" for them. Unfortunately being men we like to know for sure or not what the fuck is going on so it becomes hard to handle.

Just like mine, this girl hasn't given you a definite "no, go away" so your mind is thinking about her because its unsure what is going on. My advice? freeze out after sending that text then just keep your mind preoccupied, go for walks, game girls, go out, drink, smoke, have fun.

Girls are fun to fuck but not to stress your brain out mate. Use that energy to game, master an instrument, build shit.