I havent posted on here for a couple of months but still check the forums regularly. I'm applying what I am learning here and really seeing changes - one of which is my mind set, as I never would have thought like this before:

Recently I have been seeing a girl who came out of a long, 9 year relationship. I don't have too much invested here, am still applying pick up and working on other girls, but this one recently said that her ex called round and wanted to make things work which, to quote her, 'has messed her head up'.

She said she really likes me and doesn't want to mess me around and wanted to be honest, which is fair. Initially I said that she has a decision to make, but I wont be messed around, so she has to think on it. Initially I thought it was an easy 'out', but if I'm honest my pride took a bit of a knock too lol.

I haven't made contact in a couple of days but am thinking if its worth pursuing and the best way to do it?

get her on a date, fuck her

she's yours.