So, this cute girl started at work a few months ago and I've been getting really obvious IOIs from day one; compliments on my appearance, lots of kino, etc. Basically, I'm certain that she likes me.

Anyway, about a week ago, I was flirting with her again and she was telling me about her weekend. She mentioned how much fun she had at a club over the weekend and that when some guy was chatting her up, he called her a 'MILF'. She then says, "of course, that's a neg!" and then laughed. I was a bit surprised that she knew what a neg was, so I didn't know how to react, but I just laughed it off.

Then today, she comes over to my desk to ask me what I'm doing for lunch. I told her that I was about to get a sandwich from a local store, but that I just needed to save some documents on my computer which would take about 30 seconds. She then runs off on her own- WTF??

So, I saved my work and went downstairs to the smoking area as I assumed this is where she would be. She wasn't in the smoking area at all, but after a minute I found her around the other side of the car-park having her cigarette. Now, I should state that she always goes to the designated smoking area when she needs to smoke, but when I found her today, she was giggling and I think that she was trying to hide on me. So, after a brief conversation, I told her where I was going to get my sandwich and then she tells me that she brought in her own lunch... WTF? 5 minutes earlier she walked into my office and asked me to go for lunch with her????


I think it may be a case that she realises that I'm trying some PUA techniques on her and she's now trying to turn the tables. She always playing stupid little games. For example, she has a spare desk in her office, and about a month ago she asked me several times if I would move into her office. She even asked me to move in in front of other people, but unfortunately I was unable to at the time when she asked due to certain work commitments. However, this week, I suggested on two different occasions that I would be able to move into her office pretty soon, but she turns around both times and says that some other guy, named Colin, is moving in. Bear in mind, that she made it really, really obvious that she wanted me to move into her office first, she practically begged me to move in, and then totally turns down the offer!

(Btw, I don't think she fancies Colin or anything like that, and she still sends me plenty of IOIs).





How should I deal with this chick?

Do you think she's playing games?

if she knows what a "neg" is, well definitely she has read/been told about PUA before..

I would say game as usual. You can tell a girl all about how the triangular gaze is supposed to make her feel aroused.. it will still work. Attraction is not a choice.

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Seems to me that your highly over thinking shit.

If you like her, escalate things and make a move.

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Yeah, I do sometimes overthink things, I need to cut that shit out.

I'm just intrigued though, how a girl like this can be so interested in me one week, then suddenly treat me so differently. She was practically begging me to move into her office, would always sit beside me whenever possible, etc.

I'm pretty certain that she knows a bit about PUA because of some other behaviour lately. Maybe Ishould just freeze her out for a while?