So does anyone have any experiance on the post-attraction phase, and more specifically when a guy makes the mistake of smothering a girl too much?

I'm not at that point yet luckily, but I do feel that if I keep doing what I am doing, it will get to that point. I need to slow down a bit and give her some more space.

The thing is, I know...that she knows...I'm close to getting to that point of smothering her. This factored in most likely to the reason why she gave me a big shit test the other day.

But I read countless threads about one-itis on these forums and about how hb 10's had all this attraction for guys blah blah blah and the guy f'ed it up. I'm catching myself in the act. Hopefully not too late. I don't want this to happen. This girl had crazy! attraction at the start and now yeah... I don't want it to go there.

How can I turn this betaness in to alpha before its too late. I feel like I'm on the middle of the see-saw right now. My next move(s) will determine how this whole thing plays out. BTW goal for this girl is more than just fling, I want Long Term.

So because she knows that I'm kinda smothering her, is there anything I should say or do in the short term/immediate future to get this back on track? I know long term I gotta play it cool, let things grow and develop more gradually. It's this short term (NEXT MOVE) kinda thing that is really stumping me. Thanks.