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PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 10:38 pm 
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Not sure which board I should post this in, so General Questions it is!

I spoke to an HB9 I don't know very well (who normally doesn't reply but I don't call that defeat, I'll admit the messages aren't particularly interesting) on facebook yesterday, and today she came into my shop with her friend. Unfortunately this was my last day off, I only know she came in because I popped in to see my boss, and he told me.

Call me AFC for this approach but I'm pretty sure I tried flirting with her before in real life and crashed and burnt. I wasn't flirting here though. She makes statuses about wanting an attractive man/being lonely most Sundays.
Here's the conversation:

Me: Howdy. You make statuses with a similar feel pretty much every Sunday!
HB9: Haha
Me: ..and I know why
HB9: Go on
Me: Well it doesn't take a genius to see that you're lonely
Me: And I'm assuming you go out most saturdays, and when you don't have someone to give you cuddles through the hangover it gets ya down. Tell me I'm wrong!
HB9: Haha true
Me: Damn I'm good 8)
Ever considered that if you connected with people a little more you wouldn't feel so lonely?
HB9: I feel lonely 1 day a week. I think I'm doing fine.
Connected with people meaning??
Me: Yeah that sounds familiar. Meaning talking, interacting, meeting up with people that aren't your friends
HB9: What is that going to do??
Me: Make you feel less lonely, duh!
HB9: Hanging out with people I don't know??
Me: New people, yes!
Me: Thats exactly what helped me with my sunday blues

And then today she shows up. I work in a goldshop. She came and sold some. She knows I work there since she's been in once before. My question is this. Do I take this as some sort of IOI?

I know I haven't really flirted but I wonder if on some level I sparked some interest in her, what dyou guys think? Also any advice on what to do now? All comments welcome

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 2:36 am 
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You have to lay your real intentions out there and force her to make a choice. She is not stupid and knows you like her and are hitting on her. By you not saying anything it will make thing weirder and more awkward. So tell her you think she's cute and want to take her out or something like that. And she will have to make a choice. If you keep thinking what IOI's she giving you, you will drown in confusion that will torture your mind.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 2:43 am 
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My friend :)

You didn't really open her up...

You must say something bold, ask her a question, and then get HER to do most of the talking.


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